Chapter 25 Eight, in-depth discussion

Hisaki's hand was still on Rinko's secret place, and he continued. The tragedy of Liujo Yuxisuo is that she is arrogant and jealous, but the biggest problem is still there! Is it written in the book? No, because Murasaki Shikibu himself is a woman, so I can't write it so clearly, but it can be reminiscent of the relationship between the front and the back. Rinko looked at Jiu Mu docilely and obediently, listening to him continue. When Genji saw this woman for the first time, he teased her with all his heart, and finally got a complaint from his heart, and spent the night together, but after this rare union, Genji suddenly became cold and never took the initiative to propose sex again.

Genji was really cold. Yes, many women think so, and in fact almost all female critics criticize Genji for being ruthless.Hisaki caressed Rinko's back as if to comfort her. Rokujo Goshisho also hated Genji's cruelty, and out of jealousy, he turned into a grudge and attached himself to Genji's wife Aoi, and made trouble on Genji's beloved Xiyan, causing the two women to lose their lives. I really can't see it. On the surface, she is quiet and shy, but she belongs to the type who gets into a dead end. Once she hates him, she hates him deeply. But the most fundamental reason is that Genji is too cruel to women!

It's true, but in Genji's position, there are also some difficult places.After all, a man won’t be happy if he has sex with a woman in a bad place, but that woman keeps asking why she doesn’t love me anymore? How do women know that men have such thoughts. Rinko seems to be concerned that the reason Rokujo Oki lost Genji's love is because she lacks the charm of sex. If a man tells her clearly, she will be deeply stimulated and will never be able to cheer up again. No matter what the man does, he won't say anything, even if he is dissatisfied with Rojo Misaki, Genji never reveals a word, and often writes some tender love poems and letters to her. When he left Ise, he went to Nonomiya to meet her .

Doesn't he hate her? She admired him so much, how could he show a cold attitude?Even if they are dissatisfied, they will still respect women on the surface and do their best. This is the thoughtfulness of the nobles of the Heian Dynasty, and it may be said to be elegant. If so, it would be pitiful enough for him to be criticized by women. He tried his best, but his tenderness and consideration were not understood. It is impossible for people to understand, it is because of his unprincipled thoughtfulness that it is difficult for women to perceive their own problems.If you don't like it, don't adopt a misleading attitude.

But what if Genji really takes a stand-by after a relationship or two?Women would perhaps attack him even more vehemently for his callousness. Rinko remained silent, and only after a while did she say: You just said it was because of her bad place. Is there a way to find out if you don't ask a man a question like this? There may be a problem if you only come once or twice like Genji and then stop courting in the future. If that happens, it won't work, right? It's not so absolute. In fact, it's better to think of it as a disharmony between fish and water. Under the moonlight, it is really not suitable to discuss the private parts of men and women. Under the bright and clear moonlight, it seems that some more elegant topics should be discussed, but when you think about it carefully, is there any issue as important and fundamental to people as sex?

Men and women have hardly discussed this issue in the past, so they walked all the way without understanding each other. When Jiu Mu said so, Rinko also nodded in agreement, and then leaned forward: May I ask a question?Many lovers and husbands and wives are very enthusiastic at the beginning, but later they don't know whether the enthusiasm has faded or other reasons, and they don't court anymore. This situation should not be a problem there, right? That's different, it's just tired, it's not that it's bad. So how to distinguish this from the situation at the Rokujo Imperial Palace?

Rinko's problem gets closer and closer to the core. Didn't I say it just now, like Rokujo Gokisho, there was only one or two relationships, even if there were several opportunities in the future, Genji never asked her for sex.But ordinary lovers and husbands and wives get married countless times, until finally the man gets tired and stops courting. The two are completely different. Are you saying that if you have done it many times in a row, it will be fine? Of course, otherwise the average housewife would become a bad person there. Rinko realized something, but asked a new question.

Why are men tired? This is another matter. I often hear men say that they don't care about their wives at home, and they don't seem to want to teach her or are not enthusiastic about teaching her. Why is this? Facing Rinko's sharp questions, Hisaki gradually retreated to the defensive. It's hard to explain, probably because he is afraid that his wife is always by his side, and a man's body can't bear it if he asks too much.That's how I came up with this joke. It was the first time for Jiumu and Rinko to discuss sex-related issues so deeply, honestly speaking the man's heartfelt voice, as if he was a little embarrassed as if he had been seen through, but this is something that can only be discussed after we are in harmony with each other.

Hisaki comforted himself like this, and Rinko asked a new question. Do you know the royal family in Europe?I heard that the prince had been dating an older lady before he got married. The topic suddenly jumped from "The Tale of Genji" to other royal families, which made Jiu Mu a little confused. After getting married, he and the lady still maintain the relationship, and the princess is almost like a three-person marriage. What's going on? What's going on? The lady was far inferior to the princess in terms of age and appearance, but the prince still didn't break up with her. Why?

This is another difficult problem, maybe there is still a sexual issue behind it! Are you saying that such an outstanding princess can't do it? It's not necessarily impossible, it's just that the prince may get spiritual comfort and sex appeal with the lady, so he doesn't want to separate. But she was much older and not good-looking. Hey, you have to figure it out!Hisaki patted Rinko's shoulder lightly: Sex, age, and appearance have nothing to do with each other. Some people are old like that lady and still have sex appeal, while some are young and beautiful but not.In short, nothing is as private as sex, and its content cannot be seen from the outside. It is precisely because of this that sex is full of charm, inconceivable and free and easy.

Free and easy? isn't it? Wouldn't it be boring to say that a woman wins everything if she's young and beautiful?God just doesn't want to see this happen, so sex is an invisible but powerful thing between men and women.