Chapter 44 instant youth

The greatest enemy of human beings may be ordinary depression. Take the experiment described above as an example, using mental strength to affect the points of a free-falling dice, the first time each person does it, his results must be better than the second and subsequent ones.A reasonable estimate is that when they did it for the first time, they were very excited because of the fresh relationship and got the best performance. This is also our common problem. When we do too much of anything and it becomes mediocre, the freshness is lost and everything becomes dull.So marriage is the tomb of love, please recall the feeling of dating her or him for the first time, why can't it be like the first time every time?

Satisfaction is only a matter of a moment. When the things that have been dreamed of in the past become a part of ordinary life, the initial excitement and intensity will disappear without a trace.So philosophers say that the ideal can never be realized, and when the ideal becomes reality, it will lose its extraordinary appeal, because it has become an ordinary part of everyday life. So we drive fast, watch movies, travel, and have sex, hoping to leave this ordinary world for a while and enjoy new and different fun. Although we will return to ordinary depression later, we have already had a moment of youth.