Chapter 135 Question one two two

Why do people mostly think that reserve is a charming quality? Single men and women of marriageable age typically spend considerable time searching for a potential mate.They go to bars, join clubs, become members of gyms, attend religious services, ask friends and relatives for favors, and even pay for dating services.But if an outwardly attractive potential mate is overly enthusiastic about forming a relationship, most of them will also say no.Why do people prefer reserved potential mates? The late famous actor Groucho.Groucho Marx has said that he would never want to join any club that offered him membership.Obviously, taking such a stance in a personal relationship is bound to fail.But Max did hit something.

As mentioned earlier, people mostly look for a partner who is compassionate, intelligent, healthy, honest, emotionally stable, and physically attractive.Some of these characteristics are relatively easy to observe, while others are not.People with all of the above qualities are in high demand and less likely to rush to find a partner.It's a different story for someone who knows they lack certain qualities.Such a person is likely to have received multiple rejections and has difficulty suppressing his desire to succeed. Proper reserve, then, becomes a charming quality.