Chapter 14 Thirteenth Letter Sense of Humor

One of the most luscious sounds in this world is laughter. my lovely daughter: At lunch together last week, you told me that you liked Kalu and listed her as one of your best friends.When I ask you what you like about Carol, you immediately point to some of her admirable qualities.I was happiest when you listed her sense of humor and ability to make you laugh when you were moping. In the past, we rarely did a deep analysis of why I liked someone so much.In all fairness, nine out of ten people who are easy to be liked by others have perfect personalities.It is certainly more fun to be around such a person than someone who is prone to sour grapes or a sinister person.

This person has a great sense of humor People often use this phrase to compliment a person.Since a sense of humor is such a highly valued trait, why don't we check ourselves for it?If there is something lacking at this point, why don't we think about it: why do we lack a sense of humor?How should it be improved?There is no way to improve this point, and those who need it should work hard to do so. While not backed by science, I believe that a sense of humor is an innate trait for some people and not for others at all.However, it is not impossible to deliberately cultivate this trait.From a little research I have done on spirit and latent powers, it is possible for anyone who has the will to become a man with a sense of humour, ready to amuse himself with witty remark.Wouldn't life be very happy if we could live with a more relaxed mood and sweep away all the melancholy?

Of course, everyone has a different personality and temperament, and a person's emotions may change at any time.The longer we live on this earth, the more we realize that it is a wasteful act to live out our finite life sometimes or often in despondency.Taking myself as the object of ridicule, being able to see the bright side of things when I am depressed, and smiling when I am in the bottom of misfortune, I don't think it is the most difficult thing to cultivate this ability. Your cousin Bai Ryan died when he was young, and I will never forget the free and easy look your grandfather showed.In such a sad atmosphere, the old man was still able to tell jokes to amuse everyone, so that everyone had a chance to catch their breath when their mood was tense.Smart, he knows how to open the most ideal safety trap prepared by nature, so that everyone can pass through a hurdle that must be encountered on the journey of life.Why can he do this?That's because he realized that a person can choose one of two attitudes to live.One lives the day with sour grapes and a sinister heart, and the other lives happily to the fullest with serenity, enthusiasm, and optimism.It goes without saying which one he chooses every day, you probably know it, right?That should be the reason why he spent eighty-five years of his life (except for the last two years) in a healthy state of mind and body.A sense of humor brings good health effects. In the near future, I believe science will prove it.I am a firm believer that a sense of humor can enrich life and heal many diseases at the same time. (Isn’t there a saying that you don’t need to ask a doctor if you laugh once a day?)

There are thorns in his words, and he always teases others with a sarcastic attitude. I don't like this kind of people very much.In fact, most of the humor that is humorous without a smile is to cover up my lack of self-confidence.It doesn't hurt to have fun with friends, but only with very good friends.It happens all the time that people get hurt because of misunderstandings.If you want to make a joke, using more pleasant words can also achieve the goal. Therefore, it is advisable to adopt a safer method that does not hurt friendship. Finally, I tell you one of your grandfather's favorite jokes.I have heard this joke at least ten times, and every time I hear it, I laugh out loud.

A father came home late on a Friday night after a week-long business trip.He saw a note his wife had left on the table.It read: Son Jonny has some problems at school, please wake me up when you get back to discuss. The father thought to himself: What happened to his son who was in the first grade of elementary school?After waking up his wife, he found out that it was the school teacher who called the house and said: Johnny has been swearing a lot lately, so he is not allowed to go to class until his bad habits get over.So he said to his son's mother: Don't worry, I will give Jonny a lesson tomorrow morning.

The next morning, Johnny woke up to find his father sitting at the kitchen table. Good morning, Johnny.What do you want for breakfast? Ugh I'll just eat this shit tacos! Upon hearing this, the father jumped up and slapped his son.Johnny was slapped and flew to the front corner. At this moment, the father found his angelic three-year-old daughter standing in the doorway, and he said to her: Good morning, my dear daughter.What do you want to eat this morning? Then the daughter replied: I can bet your ass that shit tacos are not what I'm going to eat. I hope you will always have a natural smile on your face and in your pupils.A smile will allow you to break through many obstacles.Put a smile on your face even when you are frustrated!

I would rather you learn from your grandfather and live a new and new life every day with this attitude. wish healthy Father