Chapter 3 way of life

In everyone's life, there will always be some joy, anger, sorrow, and joy, which are almost consistent with human life.But those who are good at arranging life are always happier and can turn anger into peace. A person with life cultivation, or a person who is learning life cultivation, can only follow two paths, one is to try to enrich his life content; the other is to try his best to beautify his life interest. To enrich one's own life content is to expand the field of spiritual life; to beautify one's own life interest is to create the art of spiritual life. The way of life of human beings, regardless of male, female, old or young, is always busy. No matter what he is doing or what he is doing, in the basic style, he seems to be anxious and afraid of being too busy .But if you pursue it carefully, this busy life tone is not only annoying, but also extremely vulgar.

If the scope and tone of a person's life are limited to such busyness, it is simply a misuse of life. Although he was so busy, he actually wasted a lot of precious time in the midst of this busyness, because he didn't make good arrangements for the time. I always feel that most people are living under realistic goals and are slaves to life, and they cannot get out of this suffocating small circle.Why not pursue and enjoy a spiritual life for a while? The talented and generous former British Prime Minister Winston Churchill was a good oil painter. Apart from handling state affairs, he could spare some time every day to write biographies for his ancestors.Former U.S. President Eisenhower, who has made great achievements, also painted quite good oil paintings, and he could cook a few dishes by himself at home to entertain guests.In our country, Yu Youren, the patriarch of the party and state, has a good handwriting.Ye Gongchao, the former Minister of Foreign Affairs, can also draw quite well-trained ink and bamboo paintings.This seems to be all about the high class, but it is not the case for the low class.

In Europe and the United States, a group of farmers rested and played a good organ, and everyone sang joyful folk songs; a driver stopped, took out a harmonica from his arms, and played it very beautifully; A song will also win warm applause from passers-by.The singer Mario Lanza came out of such a pier.There is also a group of young students who can make up a band together and play beautiful and moving tunes.Not only that, sometimes these enthusiastic young people will also prepare a play or even a grand opera by themselves, or form a tour group. The life of some young friends in our country is extremely monotonous.Monotonous life is prone to depression.Therefore, how to find what you are most interested in from the monotonous and depressing life is a problem that you must solve personally.

People should try to cultivate their own interest in life in daily life, otherwise, it is sad to live in a monotonous and depressing life. Although some things are ethereal, they can enhance the fun of life.Only those who have lost their appreciation for spiritual life are the most hopeless laymen in the world. Even some people are willing to live for life all their lives, but they still need some pleasant things to adjust the vitality of life! Those who can always maintain a brisk and leisurely mood are those who can accomplish great things.Even if the tone of life and work is heavy and tense, it is more necessary to maintain a happy and leisurely state of mind.

The quality of a person's life cultivation lies in whether he can find out the depression from the complicated life and eliminate it.The more unsatisfactory you are, the more you need to maintain peace of mind. Don't have delusions and unrealistic expectations that cannot be realized. Do not allow your emotions to be clouded. Don't spoil your mood because of a momentary unsatisfactory thing, or even get angry suddenly. Don't neglect the surrounding environment, find more things that make you happy.Don't worry about other people's gossip, but have the power to grasp yourself.

Do not forget that a pleasant mood is the best attraction for making friends; and making good friends is the source of a happy life. Some people may say: There are always many worries in life.That's right, that's right, the word life means that there are more worries than ease, but since worries are inherent, what's the use of blindly giving in to worries?Do your best to overcome your worries and not let them increase, that's what you have to do. Only the life that is consumed by sorrow is irreproducible.What good is sorrow if there is no relief from it? Therefore, only those who are good at forgetting unpleasant things will always feel new about life.

Let us all be able to forget the troubles, depression and sadness in life, and find more interesting things to enrich and beautify our lives. The material life of human beings is limited, and it is also full of many troubles, and it is even more difficult to satisfy.But the realm of human spiritual life is limitless. In terms of mental and spiritual enjoyment, there are very few troubles, because this is completely an individual's understanding of the heart, and it can beautify your life without being disturbed by external forces. Soul, beautify thy demeanor, beautify thy speech also. That's why Goethe once said: In his life, a person should listen to a little music, read a little poetry, see a few good paintings every day, and suffer from worldly troubles, so as not to deceive the gifted and beautiful heart.

The three friends of the beneficiary, there are many good-natured and handsome people around us, why not make good friends and beautify the relationship between people?Talking slowly is the long-term fit of customs and tastes. Even if you sit together and gossip, it is not a great pleasure in life! Rich life content and beautified life interest are the spiritual realm for individuals.The world is so big, where there is no joy and joy! A good piece of music will purify the soul.A good picture will make people happy.A touching poem can make people forget the hustle and bustle of the world.Seeking out of the world from entering the world, looking into the world from the view of entering the world, can actually make us understand life, accept life, be attached to life and detach from life.

In this way, although some joy, anger, sorrow, and joy are unavoidable in life, you have become the master of your life, so why do you have any doubts or fears? (Written in October 1950)