Chapter 43 help others

When people have the ability to help others, they should not hesitate to lend a helping hand.Otherwise, others will unfortunately not get your help, and you will lose the opportunity to help others in vain.Because not everyone has the ability to help others all the time, and when they happen to have the ability to help others, if they are stingy and don't do anything, this power to help others may be fleeting, which is not a pity. The so-called helping others is not only feasible with money and material ability.Gentlemen who are poor and unable to help others, when they meet people who are obsessed with them, they can save them from distress by saying a word to remind them.This has the same merit and virtue function as when someone is in emergency and asks for help, and exerts one's strength to rescue him.This is where strength is everywhere, always doing good deeds; and where strength is apologetic, always have good intentions.

Some people may be too busy to take care of themselves, how can they spare time to help others.As everyone knows, everyone has other abilities besides money and materials to help others, but if you can forgive your mistakes and always have good intentions, you will naturally be able to exert your power to help others.That is to say: wait for the rich and then do good, and there will be no day to help others. Regardless of whether it is within or outside of money and material things, if you are able to help others and refuse to do so, it is neither beneficial to others nor beneficial to yourself.

Others choose to help others and do good deeds, that is to say, they want to help good people, and they are unwilling to help ruthless villains, so as not to be taken advantage of by them and be regarded as deceitful instead.Although this kind of thinking cannot be said to be completely wrong, it is not appropriate to care too much about the recipients. However, when you meet someone who is in trouble or in an emergency and comes to ask for help, your sympathy will eventually help you. Of.As for whether the recipient will be ungrateful or not, that's up to him, because it's not in your intention to do good.For example, when you meet a passer-by who is in danger of falling into the water and urgently needs you to help him, will you still consider his personality and morality, and whether he is worthy of your rescue?And why would he think about whether he would repay?And for those who are known to be of bad moral character, when you need help, you should do it as you would a stranger, and you will have no regrets.

It is undeniable that there are people in the world who repay kindness with grievances or cross rivers and demolish bridges. After receiving help from others, instead of thinking of repaying, they treat them as enemies and become strangers. The farther away from you, the better.Even though you have forgotten about it, he is afraid that you will remember it.After all, such people are rare.You don't need to worry about this situation, let alone dampen your willingness to help others. As I said before, it's like the passers-by you helped who still don't know each other afterwards, so don't worry about it.

However, helping others should be done according to one's ability, not just on the spur of the moment and disregarding personal safety.For example, if you only have a bucket of rice in your family and you donate all of it to others, leaving your own wife and children to starve; or if you are ignorant of water and can't swim, but you jump into the abyss to save others and die together, then It's an insanely stupid person.We encourage helping others, but we must do what we can. Helping others is a kind of virtue, and there is a saying that giving is happier than receiving, but sometimes the giver will inevitably suffer from bitter consequences, but those who are willing to help others will always have an open mind, and tolerance is a big deal.