Chapter 51 people don't want to be idle

In the life of modern people, the unhappiest person is the person who is too idle; and the happiest person is the person who can arrange leisure. Some retired people have nothing to do all day long, their expressions are in a trance, and they don't know how to pass the time every day.There are also some people who, once they are left idle from high positions, become disoriented, restless, and even suffer from upper body diseases.In both cases, it is because he can't stand idle words, and he doesn't seek the joy of life from idleness. If you pay attention, you can meet this kind of middle-aged and above people who are lonely and dull in the park or in medical institutions.The topics they talked about when they met each other also lamented the sadness of being idle, and felt that the days seemed like years.

This kind of people neither worry about food and clothing, nor have a fixed place to live. It is said that life should be leisurely and contented, but it is because they can't be lonely and they don't know how to arrange their own life, so they will fall into unhappiness. situation. There used to be so-called geriatrics, which means that when people get old, they will naturally suffer from certain kinds of physical ailments.Now, during the transition from an agricultural society to an industrial society, there is an unwarranted disease, let’s call it retirement disease. This disease seems innocent, but it is indeed sick; It's just that he feels uncomfortable all over.Therefore, constant visits to the doctor became his daily routine.

With the improvement of diet and living standards, coupled with the progress of medical and health care, people’s life expectancy has also generally increased. Many people who have retired after reaching retirement age have not yet aged physically. Living alone will lead to physical discomfort from mental unhealthiness. Subconsciously, I only feel that I am sick, but I can't tell where the illness is. Man is a very difficult animal to manage. Being too busy is painful; too idle is also painful.The way to cure idleness is how to find happiness from idleness.This may be a prescription from the proverbs of the Chinese sages, that is: people should not be happy to be idle, it is not just because they have nothing to do.If you are free, you can read books; if you are free, you can visit famous places; if you are free, you can make friends; if you are free, you can drink wine;

Friends who are too idle to be happy, may as well try it out, can you find happiness from which one of these items?There are so many projects for you to choose from, so it’s not impossible that none of them are suitable for you, right?