Chapter 80 Manage your marriage well

The last class in the school is "Marriage Management and Creativity", and the lecturer is a professor specially hired by the school to study marriage issues. He walked into the classroom and hung a stack of charts on the blackboard. Then, he lifted the chart and wrote a line of words on it with a brush: The success of a marriage depends on two things: 1. Find a good person; Two, be a good person yourself. It's that simple. As for the other secrets, I think if they are not folk remedies, they are at least commonplace.said the professor. At this time, the audience was buzzing, because many students below were married people.

After a while, a woman in her thirties finally stood up and said: What if these two things are not done? The professor turned over the second wall chart.Said: Then it becomes four. 1. Tolerate and help.If you can't help it, continue to tolerate it. Second, make tolerance a habit. Three, develop a fool's character in the habit. 4. Be a fool, and do it forever. Before the professor finished reading these four items, there was an uproar in the audience. Some said it was impossible, and some said it was impossible. Wait for everyone to calm down. The professor said: If you can’t do these four things, and you want to have a stable marriage, then you have to do the following sixteen things.

Then the professor turned over the third wall chart. 1. Don't lose your temper at the same time. 2. Unless there is an emergency, don't yell loudly. 3. When arguing, let the other party win. 4. Disputes on the day will be resolved on the same day. 5. Do not return to your natal home or go out for more than eight hours after a quarrel. 6. When criticizing, speak out of love. 7. Always be ready to admit your mistakes and apologize. 8. When a rumor comes, take it as a joke. 9. Give him or her one free night a month. 10. Don't go to bed with gas. 11. You'd better be home when he or she comes home.

12. When the other party does not want you to disturb, insist on not disturbing. 13. When the phone rings, ask the other person to answer it. Fourteen, how much money in the pocket should be reported at any time. 15. Insist on staying away from days without money. 16. The money given to your parents must be less than the money given to the other party's parents. When the professor finished reading, some people laughed, while others sighed. The professor listened for a while and said: If everyone is disappointed with these sixteen items, then you have to do the following two hundred and fifty-six items.In short, the theory of two people getting along is a theory of geometric progression, which is always quadratic on the basis of the previous number.

Then the professor turned to the fourth page of the wall chart. This page was no longer written with a brush, but with a pen. There were 256 lines, densely packed. The professor said: Marriage at this point is already very dangerous.At this time, there was a louder noise from the audience. But when the professor announced the end of the class, some people sat there without moving, and they shed tears. ★Life is delicious★ It is common for couples to get along with each other for a long time, and disagreements and quarrels are also common, but one thing must be understood: people will inevitably have shortcomings.Since we are in love, we should understand because of love, tolerate because of understanding, forgive because of tolerance, and be beautiful because of forgiveness.Both parties should be as tolerant as possible and consider each other carefully, so that the marriage will be stable, the family will be harmonious, and happiness will last forever.