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Chapter 11 talk about women

gossip 張愛玲 6162Words 2023-02-05
Westerners call sinister and mean women cats.I recently came across an English booklet called cats that specifically swears at women. The content is not completely inhumane, but the slang words related to women are scattered everywhere, and it is not easy to collect them, unlike here.Some of the excerpts, after reading it, readers always have a few words to say, some are angry, some laugh, some feel happy, and some claim to be a fair man to make a fair statement, or say a little too much, or say That's right, it only applies to a small number of women, but in any case, if there is one, change it, if there is no one, encourage it, etc.In short, I have never met anyone who has nothing to say on the subject.I am certainly no exception.Let's read the original text first and then discuss it.

Anonymous, the author of the cat, solemnly declares in advance in the preface: the words here are not about you, dear reader, if you are a man, it is not about your wife, sister, daughter, grandmother or mother-in-law. He repeatedly argued that his purpose of writing this book was not to take advantage of the woman's loss to vent his anger, but he later admitted that it was a bit of venting effect, because: a man who has just had a quarrel with his wife, reading this book before going to bed, can gain comfort. He said: The material structure of a woman is too rational, and the spiritual aspect is a little worse. That is also expected and cannot be demanded.

When a man is really moved, his love is much greater than that of a woman.But looking at it from another perspective, it is much longer for a woman to hate a man than for a man. The only difference between women and dogs is that dogs aren't spoiled like women, they don't wear jewelry, and, thank goodness!They can't talk! In the end, every man's money is always spent on some woman. A man can flirt with the lowest barmaid without losing his status, and a high-class woman can't even blow a kiss to the postman!We infer from this: a man is no better than a woman, and it doesn't matter if he bends lower, because it is not difficult for him to straighten up again.

Generally speaking.A woman's life does not require as many kinds of stimulants as a man's life, so if a man in his spare time, does something deviant to relieve his fatigue, troubles, and unfulfilled ambitions, he should be forgiven. For most women, to love means to be loved. A man likes to love a woman, but sometimes he also likes her to love him. If you promise to do a woman a favor, she'll do anything for you: but if you've already done her a favor, she's not busy helping you.So you should promise to help different women all the time, then you can get a little reward, a little benefit, because there is only one kind of repayment for women: advance repayment.

To a man this woman's dress may be beautiful, but to another woman it is only a shilling threepence a yard, and therefore not beautiful. Time is money, so if a woman spends more time in front of the mirror, she spends more money in fashion shops. If you don't flirt with a woman, she says you're not a man: if you flirt with her, she says you're not a classy person. A man boasts of his victories and a woman of her retreats.But the reason why the enemy attacked was often all provoked by her. Women don't like kind men, but they regard themselves as a fast reformatory. Once married, they think that their husbands will immediately become saints.

Only men have the right to propose marriage. As long as this system exists, marriage cannot be a fair transaction; women will always bring it up and say that she agreed to his request, thus gaining an advantage in the quarrel.For this reason, women insist that men should propose marriage. Most women have to do something wrong.Just happy.Marriage doesn't seem right enough. Women tend to forget this: all their education has been to teach them to be strong-willed and resist the temptations of the outside world, but they spend their lives provoking the temptations of the outside world.Modern marriage is a kind of insurance, invented by women.

If women could draw royalties after making up stories, all women would be rich. You suddenly ask a woman a question, and her first answer is about official history, and the second is about fiction. A woman often argues bitterly with her husband and must refute him, but she quotes his words to a third party as wise words.poor husband: Women do not make friends with women as quickly as men do.They have more hidden things. Women are lucky that surgeons cannot dissect their consciences. When a woman judges a man, she only bases on how he treats her. The woman will say: I don't believe that man is a murderer. He never murdered me!

Men do wrong things, but women go around planning how to do them wrong. Women don't think much of the future and try to forget their past so God knows what they have in mind! When a woman begins to economize, she can save as much expense as is necessary.It's amazing! If a woman tells you a secret, don't tell it to another woman. Someone else must have told her. Whatever you're going to do for a woman, she takes it for granted.She doesn't thank you for anything you do for her.No matter what little thing you forget to do, she curses at you.The family is not a charity. Most women never think before they speak.Men think about it and stop talking!

If she never reads a book a second time because she already knows the plot, such a woman will never make a good wife.If she only seeks novelty and completely disregards style and charm, then after a while, she will find out her husband's personality, his weaknesses and eccentricities, and she will think he is boring and will not love him anymore. Your women build castles in the air and if they don't exist, it's all your fault! It's harder for a woman to tell me I'm wrong than for a man to say a full set of catchphrases. You suspect your wife, she cheats on you.If you don't doubt your wife, she will doubt you.

All the words about women are because they are witty words.The single picture is playful, but the correctness of the meaning must be compromised. Because everyone has their own temper, how can we generalize, but in comparison women can be generalized, because people's customs, habits and occupational environments are different, and most women always run the house and look after children indoors, the traditional life is typical since There is only one, and individual habits are different and limited.Therefore, it is more certain to say how women are like than men in general. I remember that there was an informal debate in our school. Once the issue of men and women was involved, everyone forgot what the original topic was. They only focused on this point, chattering, laughing and cursing, and the atmosphere was extremely lively.A woman talked about how unfair men are, how they bully a woman, a soft and emotional animal, using her emotions to imprison her and force her to be a plaything. The disadvantage is all because of unequal opportunities. In the debate between men and women, women always come in this way.At that time, I couldn't help but refute her. It wasn't because I especially liked doing slanted articles, but I was really tired of hearing all of them.In the 1930s, the Linglong Magazine, which was handed out to female students, taught movie stars the secrets of beautification and taught the beautiful women how to guard against men's attacks. Because men have bad intentions, falling in love is dangerous, so they get married. It's also dangerous, because marriage is the grave of love

We are familiar with these words of women, and we have heard too much of men's words. It is nothing more than scolding women for their heinous crimes. The two sides insist on their own opinions. On the surface, it seems that the public has axioms, and the women have the same principles.Women are indeed petty, hypocritical, hypocritical, quick-sighted, and vicious. (Although serious women hate sluts, in fact, if there is a chance to play the role of a seductress, there is no one who is not eager to try.) Smart women respond to these criticisms It's not as good as defense, but it's back to the original.Blame it on the man.In ancient times, women succumbed to men's fists due to lack of physical strength, and were always dominated for thousands of years. Because they adapted to the environment, they developed the so-called way of concubines.Women's inferiority is caused by men alone, so what else can men complain about? The shortcomings of women are all caused by the environment, but why do women who have received higher education like men in modern times often disappoint people, are paranoid and awkward like her grandmother?Of course, the habit of thousands of years cannot be changed overnight, it only takes time But blaming everything on the man is not a complete answer, it seems irresponsible.Irresponsible is also an adjective that men have long used to add to women.The cat author says: A respectable professor once told me a dozen reasons why I shouldn't take women too seriously.This has been bugging me?Because they always take themselves very seriously, and hate others to treat them as sweet, irresponsible little things.So what if, as the professor said, they shouldn't be taken too seriously, and they themselves don't want to be sweet, irresponsible little things? They want to be taken seriously, but when they do something terribly wrong, they want you to say she's just an irresponsible little thing. The reason why women were conquered and became slaves in the patriarchal society was because their physical strength was inferior to that of men.But the physical strength of men is not as good as that of wolves, tigers and leopards. Why are they not subdued by animals in the process of natural selection?It can be seen that it is not enough to blame others. Famous novelist Elders.Huxley said in the book Tit for Tat: what kind of person you are, what kind of things you will meet.In tit-for-tat, there is a young wife, Margaery, who is a beggar and a poor person by nature.Her husband, who was a fairly docile husband, had to fail her in the end by having a relationship with a courtesan.Margaery finally became a heartbroken man. It is true that the progress of society is incredible, beyond the control of individuals, and those who bear the brunt do not know why.But going back to a certain stage, some active elements are inevitable.Like the current world situation, human beings have gradually evolved into a mechanized commercial civilization with fierce competition, resulting in a situation that must be fought. Although they are running around clamoring not to fight, they can't fight, but they are still dragged into it one by one in confusion.It is true that there is no way, but it cannot be said that human beings are not to blame. Some people say that men rule the world and their grades are bad, so it is better to give up the position to women, it will surely refresh your eyes and ears.At first glance, this sounds like a rush to the doctor.If it is monarchy, Wu Zetian is a hero, and Tang Taizong is also a hero. If you meet a good emperor, regardless of gender, the world will be peaceful.The problem with monarchy is that a good emperor is too rare.In a democracy, most women have a lower level of self-government than men.Moreover, international disputes are a bit like old mothers arguing, and it is even more unimaginable to change to a real woman. Calling a woman to govern the country and the world is a play, but the absurd suggestion of inviting a Bodhisattva has its scientific basis.Someone once predicted that if this world war destroys our civilization to the point where it cannot be restored to its original state, the new culture of the next period will fall on the black people, because the yellow and white people have made achievements in the past, and only the black people The innocence has not been revealed, and the energy has not been exhausted. I am afraid that it will be their turn to be the protagonists in the future era.Those who say this are not pretending to be astonishing.A high degree of civilization, a high degree of training and suppression is indeed enough to damage one's vitality.Women are often dismissed as barbaric, primitive.Human beings have tamed birds and beasts, but they cannot completely tame women.For thousands of years, women have always been kept out of education, so how could they know that they are not there to cultivate their vitality, Xu Tu made a big move? Feminist society has the same advantage that women have more common sense in choosing a mate than men. Although this is not a profound science, it has a lot to do with the future of mankind.Men choose their wives and houses purely on the basis of their appearance.Appearance and physique are also indispensable in eugenics.When a woman chooses a husband, why don't she pay attention to her appearance, but it is not as biased as men. At the same time, she also pays attention to wisdom, health, conversation, self-sufficiency, strength, etc., and appearance is put in the second place.Some people say that the crux of today's society is that men don't know how to choose their wives, so that their children have no tutors, and their children and grandchildren are deteriorating.That is an exaggeration, but we have to admit that we cannot hope to produce a superhuman race unless all marriages are initiated by women. The term Superman was proposed by Nietzsche and is often quoted. Before Nietzsche, similar ideals can also be found in ancient fables.Oddly enough, our imaginary Superman is always a man.why?Probably because Superman's civilization is a further development than our civilization, and our civilization is a man's civilization.There is another layer: superman is the crystallization of pure ideals, while superwoman is not difficult to obtain in reality.In any cultural stage, a woman is still a woman.Men are partial to a certain aspect of development, while women are the most common and basic, representing the cycle of the four seasons, land, birth, old age, sickness and death, diet and reproduction.Women tie the wisdom of human beings flying through space to a solid root. Even here and now we can find the perfect woman.Perfect men are rare because we don't know what kind of man is perfect.Utilitarians have their ideals, believers in Lao and Zhuangzi have their ideals, and members of the National Socialist Party also have their ideals.It seems that they each have their own shortcomings, which is why we have deep expectations for a perfect man. A woman's range of motion is limited, so a perfect woman is more perfect than a perfect man.At the same time, a bad woman is often worse than a bad man.It is true.Some businessmen have no regard for business ethics and their private lives are impeccable.On the contrary, those who have no conscience towards women will do their duty conscientiously.And a vicious woman is so pervasive. Superman is masculine, but God has a feminine component. Superman is different from God.Superman is aggressive, a survival goal.God is vast in compassion, mercy, understanding, and rest.Like most so-called intellectuals.I am also very willing to believe in religion but not able to believe it. If one day I gain faith, I will probably believe in the mother of the earth in O'Neill's great god Brown. Great God Brown is one of the most moving plays I know.I read it again and again, and the third or fourth time I read it still made me cry.The Earth Mother outlined by O'Neill in an impressionistic style is a prostitute.A strong, quiet, guilty, blond-haired woman of about twenty, with clean, healthy skin, full breasts, and broad hipbones.Her movements were slow, steady, and languid like an animal.Her large eyes dreamily reflected the deep turmoil of nature.She chews gum like a sacred cow, oblivious to time, with its own purpose of immortality. She said it in a rough, earnest tone: I feel sorry for you, every one of you.Every son of a bitch I just want to run out naked on the street, love you lot, love you to death, as if I brought you a new narcotic.Make you forget everything forever. (smiling crookedly) But they can't see me, just like they can't see each other.And without my help they keep going, keep dying. People die and are buried in the ground.The Earth Mother comforts the dying: After you fall asleep, I will cover you with a quilt. You have to wear a mask to be alive, and she took it off for the dying, saying: You can't go to bed with it on.If you want to sleep, you have to go alone. Here is an excerpt of a dialogue: BRON (leaning close to her, gratefully) The ground is warm. Mother Earth (consolingly, staring straight at an idol) Shhh!Hush! (tells him to be silent) Go to sleep. Brown Yes, when mother waits for me to wake up? The earth mother sun is coming out again. Brown came out to judge the living and the dead! (fear) I don't want a fair trial.I want love. Mother Earth has nothing but love. Brown.Thank you, mother. people die.Mother Earth said to herself: What's the use of having a baby?What's the use of giving birth to death? She added: Spring always comes back, with life!Always come back!Always, always, always again!It's spring again!It's life again!Summer, autumn, death, and peace again! (Painful sorrow) But always, always, always the pain of love and conception and childbirth and spring with the unbearable cup of life (in exchange for bitter joy), with the glorious burning crown of life ! (She stands like an idol of the earth, her eyes gazing at the vast universe.) This is the goddess.The Goddess of Luo, who looks like a swimming dragon, is just a beautiful woman in ancient costume, the Guanyin offered by the world is just a beautiful woman in ancient costume with bare feet, the half-naked tall and fat Greek stone statue is just a sportswoman, and the blond Madonna is just a pretty nurse. The milk that has been fed in public for more than a thousand years. Further down, we are drawn into the dangerous vortex of religious controversy, which is as fierce as the debate between men and women, but less interesting.Or stop early. Even though women are wrong in every way, there is a bit of the root of the earth mother in the spirit of women.Lovely women are really lovely.To a certain extent, lovely character and charm can be cultivated artificially, and the education of ladies in different countries all over the world is aimed at this, although the original meaning is often distorted, making them look like the ladies in the book Cat, Still forgivable. There are many ways a woman pleases a man.Those who only focus on her body will lose a lot of precious life interest. Pleasuring others with a beautiful body is the oldest occupation in the world, and it is also a very common occupation for women. Women who marry for a living can all be classified under this item.It goes without saying that having a beautiful body and pleasing others with the body; having a beautiful mind and pleasing others with the thoughts, actually there is not much difference.
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