Chapter 8 Chapter 2 Psychological Winning: Overcoming the Fear of Problems

1. Only by thinking of a way will there be a way Finding a way is the premise of having a way.If the brain is given a vacation, even a genius will be at a loss when he encounters a problem. The improvement of human intelligence is a gradual process.As long as you can overcome the fear of difficulty and make up your mind to work hard, you will find more and more solutions to problems and become more and more intelligent! Use your brain to find a way, don't let your intelligence machine rust! 2. Don’t say it’s difficult, first ask if you’re doing your best The reason why we say things are difficult is that we are not doing our best!

Even though we say we're doing our best, we're actually not living up to our full potential! Put the impossible aside, and just think about whether you are doing your best.Learn to think of all ways and exhaust all possibilities to work hard! There are no big problems in the world, only failures and regrets caused by not working hard enough. 3. The only thing worth fearing is fear itself The only thing we have to fear is fear itself vague, thoughtless, unreasonable fear itself! The dangers and fears we feel are often pre-set and distorted. Preliminary fears can distort the truth, and things are definitely not as serious as imagined.The seriousness of a problem is often magnified by ourselves, as is the difficulty of things.

As long as you make an effort to face your fear, it will fade away. 4. Learn to dream with your feet Only by being down-to-earth in action can dreams come true! Only empty dreams and intentions, but unwilling to put in the hard work, will end up being a chicken that doesn't lay eggs. Desperate to take decisive action because kindness and truth alone has never healed humanity and has never healed a person. Among the birds, parrots can talk, but parrots can't fly high. 5. Not doing it now means never doing it The distance from ○ to 1 is often greater than the distance from 1 to 1000.Many people are unsuccessful because they linger too long at the door.

It is better to take an action of jumping bravely than to say ten thousand words and one thousand words!To do anything, the most important thing is to have the courage to start. Do it almost, don't delay at the beginning. Do the right thing, do it well, and do it now! 6. Take a few more steps To become an outstanding talent, you have to work several times more than others. To stand out at critical moments, you have to take a few more steps than others in normal times. Don't work hard just because you are smart, learn from Bill.Gates, smart people have to work harder. Don't think it's unfair, maybe you haven't done enough.

7. Change I can't to I can The reason why we are unsuccessful is often not because others deny us, but because we deny ourselves; to succeed, we must delete the sentence "I can't do it" from our dictionary! Get rid of learned weakness, break out the oak bonsai, and you will find that life can be vast! 8. Change absolutely impossible into absolute possibility We say things are impossible only because we have tied ourselves up. When we change how is possible to how can we, the original unimaginable miracle may appear. Those who do not succumb to the conclusion will often go beyond the conclusion.

When we force ourselves to bravely climb the highest peak, one day we will find that all the things we were afraid of in the past will be trampled under our feet! 9. Don’t be afraid of rejection, you won’t know if you don’t try Even if there is only one percent hope, it is worth your while to try. Many potentials were suppressed, and many due achievements were not made, all because they were denied before they tried! Try it bravely, if you don't try, you will know if it will work! Don't be afraid to say no, maybe someone expects your presence! In today's society, not only the survival of the fittest, but also the survival of the fittest.

10. Break down the pressure of the problem To challenge a difficult problem is actually to challenge a pressure. One of the important means to overcome stress is to be good at turning big problems into small ones, and breaking down big pressures into small ones. A person certainly cannot eat a camel at a time, but if he eats a little at a time, it will be wiped out in a short time. Learn to approach it in stages and in layers, and the impossible becomes possible. 11. The more you want to give up, the more you can't give up Many people who have failed and succeeded have felt overwhelmed more than anyone else.However, they can always establish the belief that success is next time, and stick to it.

Don't complain that the seeds don't germinate after sowing, as long as you take good care of them, there will always be a day of harvest. Human beings, like bamboo, tend to grow segment by segment.The time when you want to give up the most is precisely the time when you can't give up! 12. Think through the problem Thinking through problems is a good quality of thinking.Only by thinking thoroughly can we find out what the problem is and the most effective means to solve it. Only when you think about it thoroughly can you discover that the so-called crisis is just a manifestation of a problem in a certain aspect. It can not only be overcome, but also turned into a greater opportunity.