Chapter 26 The Fifth and Seventh Techniques: Resolving Difficulties by Adapting to the Situation

In social occasions, many unpredictable situations often occur. It is necessary to adjust the communication strategy in time, assess the situation and adapt to the situation. Queen Victoria of England and her husband Albert are very loving and harmonious.Victoria is the king of a country and puts more emphasis on public affairs, while Albert is not interested in politics.Therefore, it is inevitable to be a little awkward sometimes. One day, it was late at night after the queen finished her official business.When she got home, she knocked on the bedroom door when she saw it was closed. Albert asked in the room:

who? The Queen replied: I am the queen. The door did not open. The queen knocks again. Albert asked again: who? The Queen replied: Victoria. The door still didn't open. The queen lingered for a while before knocking on the door. Albert still asked: who? The Queen replied: your wife. At this time, the door opened, and her husband pulled her in with both hands. Why didn't the Queen open the door the first two times?Because her mentality did not adjust properly with the changes in the environment, she ignored that she was speaking to her husband in her own home, not to the courtiers in the court, resulting in a language error.Why the last call to open the door?Because at this time she realized the identity of her wife, she immediately acted accordingly, and with gentle words, she opened her husband's heart and solved the problem.

There is another story: Former Minister of Education Wu Jing won the title of idea king as soon as he took office, and one of his ideas was the Chenggongling training camp for junior college girls.Some people criticized the idea as flashy and nothing more than a show, and ridiculed that everyone's eyes were only focused on the faces and figures of the girls being trained, and they even selected the so-called flowers of success.When the reporter asked about this, Minister Wu said calmly: I have already booked the flower of Chenggong Ridge for my second son, and others are not allowed to snatch it!In order to resolve the blame of outsiders.