Chapter 42 Seventh and seventh techniques: how to deal with others

To expose shortcomings is to reveal the shortcomings of others, or to boast, or to deceive.Wife, friends, and relatives sometimes joke about you and make you very embarrassed.If you acquiesce, you feel that your heart is not going well, and if you retaliate, you feel that it is difficult to speak. How to get rid of such an embarrassing predicament, you might as well use witty language and humorous jokes to push the boat along the way, dilute the embarrassing atmosphere, and free yourself from the predicament. For example: You brag to your girlfriend: I am a writer, recently I published a piece of work in a newspaper, the story is very vivid, praised by the editor.

At this time, a friend suddenly walked out and exposed your short story: Hey, I'm not afraid of people laughing and tilting their chins, don't listen to him talking nonsense, his works in the newspaper are only as big as tofu cubes, small articles! At this point, you must be very embarrassed.what to do?You might as well use the language of wisdom, following your friend's words: How about a small article?There are small articles in the writer's big works!If you don't believe me, ask Cao Xueqin! It can be seen that humorous ridicule is indeed a way to deal with it. Another example:

You're fixing your neighbor's phone, and you're tearing it apart and saying: Take it apart and have a look, it may be that the microphone is broken, or it may be disconnected At this moment, one of your relatives came over to expose your fault and said: Hi, did you ask him to fix it?His technique is too high!The phone that I helped me fix the day before yesterday still rang before it was fixed, but after I asked him to fix it, it became dumb! You must be very embarrassed right now.what to do?You might as well say back to him: Every phone is not necessarily broken in the same place. If your phone cannot be repaired, it may not be possible to repair his phone.

It is also a good way to pay back with confidence. However, you must know that most of those who dare to expose your shortcomings in front of you are friends, relatives and acquaintances, and they often blurt out or improvise, joking, and have no intention of hurting you at all.Therefore, when dealing with ridicule, we must not retort and provoke a war of words, so as to break the good relationship between the two parties; On the other hand, looking for other topics, or lighting a cigarette, sipping tea, or smiling to divert other people's attention is also a good recipe.