Chapter 65 The first 00th technique: how to end the conversation satisfactorily

When two people talk, everything that should be said has been said, and the goal has been achieved, so it is time to end the conversation in time and draw a successful conclusion. How to end the conversation satisfactorily? The ancients always paid attention to the strength of concluding sentences when writing prose and composing poems.The beginning of a sentence should be like a firecracker, with a sudden and easy sound; the conclusion of a sentence should be like a bell, more than voiceless.Ending the conversation should also be like ringing a bell, giving the other party a sense of voicelessness and lingering for three days, giving people endless aftertaste and endless reverie.

So, how to end the conversation more satisfactorily, so that the two parties shake hands and say goodbye amidst the strong emotional agitation? The purpose of the conversation is the immediate cause that affects when and how it is spoken, and it is also the cause that affects the way it ends.Different conversation purposes can have different ending methods. ·You just narrate a certain matter to the other party, as long as the other party knows it, there is no need for the other party to make any reply or take any action. Then, when you have clearly explained the matter to the other party, you can end the conversation.

·If you not only explain a certain matter to the other party, but also persuade the other party to change their views on this matter and express their attitude, then the conversation should be until the other party listens to the advice. ·If you just ask a question, ask for the other party’s opinion, and discuss together, the other party must have a serious thinking process before expressing his opinion clearly, then when you end the conversation, you should consider making different concluding remarks according to different situations . Generally speaking, at the end of the conversation, summarize the views of the other party and yourself, and emphasize the common points of the two views, which will better communicate the feelings of the two parties.Here are a few examples of ending a conversation for reference:

Ⅰ Summary Outline the other person's perspective, express your own, and offer thanks.like: Thanks for talking to me about this. Sorry to waste so much of your precious time. You are right that there is a lot of truth to your thinking. Your words have inspired me to some extent, and I will seriously consider your suggestions. That's it, thanks! Ⅱ suggestion In a certain situation, you need to give the other party time to consider your opinion before discussing it, so you express your expectations with suggestive language.For example: Let's make an appointment to discuss this issue, shall we?

Keep in touch. Hope to hear your satisfactory answer next time. goodbye. Ⅲ Ease If you encounter endless arguments and cannot reach a consensus for a while, and you need to avoid confrontation, you can use moderate language, seeking common ground in differences, or reserving differences in common ground, indicating that the discussion can continue at a certain time.For example: Although I don't completely agree with your opinion, your thinking method and starting point are also very reasonable! Let's think about it again, shall we continue the discussion next time? In general, I agree with your opinion, but there are still some places that need to be refined.Shall we talk sometime and make a decision?

Your suggestion is very good, although I can't fully adopt it, I will seriously consider your suggestion. In short, to end the conversation successfully, it is not a simple goodbye, but to create a friendly and honest atmosphere, which is both decent and courteous, and it also needs to leave a foreshadowing for the next conversation, so that both parties can laugh together Leave each other with a good impression.