Chapter 15 Afterword, the big truth can also be turned into a small story

If there is a book that has been hidden in my heart for more than 20 years, and I can't start writing until today, that book is "Speaking to the Bottom of My Heart". Since my sophomore year of college, I have taught the Debate Club in Chenggong High School, and taught poetry recitation in Normal University. After graduating from Normal University, I taught poetry clubs in several universities, and gave lectures on the art of speaking everywhere. I have always wanted to write down my experience in this area, but I have been procrastinating for more than 20 years.the reason is simple

I know how to express vividly in words, but I don't know how to describe brilliantly in words. Until today, after publishing more than 60 books, including "I'm Not Teaching You to Deceit" and "Human Nature You Must Know", I have gradually become confident that I can vividly express my theories in oral communication into words. Yes!It is theory. When you read along the way and feel that this book is really vivid and interesting, and it has the flavor of "I'm Not Teach You to Cheat", you have actually heard a lot of theories from me. It's just that those theories are hidden in life, and I present them to you through many ordinary stories.

Which academic theory is not produced by life experience? Theory is something obtained after analysis. It can provide us with the general principle of speaking and tell us the strategy we should have.But theory may not necessarily become a tactic.As a result, many theorists have become empty-handed. Therefore, it took me more than 20 years to hesitate, and I have been able to write the book until now. What I am waiting for is not academic theory, but more than 50 years of real life experience. ● Now, let's look back and see, in this book, have you seen how not to speak, how to calmly observe when others talk more, how to use body language, show the skills of saying that you are an adult, how to report news, State the facts, host the show, and arrange the order of speaking and create the atmosphere of speaking?

Also, do you understand what a real old friendship is, what kind of entreaty is more effective, what is self-hypnosis, how not to tell unnecessary lies, and how to respect your audience, so that your words can convey the meaning, and the words can express themselves. sincere. Of course, you have also learned how to deal with other people's words and how to let them know.You know the principle of deputy to deputy. After reading the news, you can also understand that the deputy who seems so stupid and always says the wrong thing, in fact, has a smart forehand behind him. As for Confucius' success, don't talk about it, don't criticize what happens, let go of the past, and it is no longer just a text, but a life wisdom that you can use flexibly.

You even learned the techniques of sentence punctuation, pauses, stress, homonyms, tone sandhi of the upper (three) tones, and even names. By the last two chapters, you have seen many examples of taking advance as retreat and retreat as advance, as well as seeing the world from another angle and speaking from another angle!People who know how to speak always use words to affirm others and care about the world, so that they can see far and wide, make more friends, and live a happier life. ● There is another reason why I am launching this book at this time I am already fifty-two years old, and I have seldom given speeches outside in recent years, and it will obviously be even less in the future.I am often afraid that my body will age quickly and I will not be able to write one day, so I decided to sort out all my important speech materials in the past few years.

"Speaking to the Heart" is scheduled to write four books, the first and second episodes are about speaking in the world and general language skills, and the third episode is about humor skills. All three are very beautiful books.As for the fourth volume, because it belongs to temperament and speech, it can only be used as a professional textbook.I deeply hope that I can have the time and energy to complete the four books in a short period of time.I also hope that every reader can see the original intention of my writing and the things behind the story from these superficially funny works.

As twenty-six years ago, when I made a TV show, I insisted Don't show the audience just because they like to watch it.Do it for him, and make him like it. Now, I finally present this book "Speaking to the Bottom of My Heart (Speaking in the World)" in front of you, and share my experience with you.It is the product of my design for more than 20 years, I hope you like it, and please introduce it to your friends. Thanks! (End of the book)