Chapter 26 Twenty-four, or one

After reading the book "Before and After My Divorce with Zhang Hanzhi", I feel a lot of emotion. (Written by Hong Junyan, published by Ming Pao Publishing House).This book has a subtitle: I am no longer silent. The main line of the book is about the affairs of men and women, love, marriage, change, divorce, these things are so common that they happen all the time.However, because all the celebrities involved were involved in this matter, and the woman even said that Chairman Mao encouraged divorce, it became very sensational. It was the woman who wrote the book first, blaming the man for the divorce. The man felt the need to clarify the facts, so he wrote this book.

There is no reason to talk about the relationship between men and women. Whether the woman changes first or the man changes first, it doesn't matter whether it is right or wrong.People are subject to change, they come together when they arise, and they disperse when they die.The important thing is to get together happily, and to disperse gracefully, and you must not be dragging your feet. As stated in the book, the woman had already had an extramarital affair, and openly raped her at the man's relative's house.For fear of irritating their relatives, the man's family kept the matter hidden and did not report it. This is very inappropriate, and the man should be notified immediately.After the man found out, of course he was hit, but this blow must be endured and cannot be avoided.How long can you hide it?This kind of thing happened, and the only way to remedy it is to deal with it as soon as possible, delay it, and let it go, the possibility is extremely slim.

In the end, the man still knew that the second step was wrong. After knowing the mistake, he still did not deal with it decisively, but took forbearance, hoping that the woman would find her way back.But they don't know that if women change their minds about their husbands and go to meet men, they will become addicted.If it's okay once, there will be a second time, and there will be no suspension. The second time really happened. This time, the woman's concubine was a dignified minister, so the divorce was a foregone conclusion. Divorce, even if it is according to the order, is not a big deal at first, but the woman wants to publish a book, and she will beat him up, saying that the man had an affair first.Reversing the facts made the man obliged to explain, so this book was written.

When men and women want to break up, there is no right or wrong, so there is no need to turn black and white to prove something. This is one of the emotions.