Preface to daughter and all young friends Life can only be understood in retrospect, and in order to live it must be forward-looking. I write these letters to my daughter, Julie, with deep love and infinite concern. For most elderly people, youth is the most memorable, full of alcohol and roses, and it is also the most enviable period when you don’t have to worry about health, family or work responsibilities, and financial issues. .What a pity that young people waste such a precious youth ignorantly!There must be many people who will resonate with this sentence, right?True, youth can sometimes be a time of restlessness and misfortune, even of great failure, for young people.This is evidenced in some countries by the fact that suicide is the leading cause of death in the fifteen to twenty-five age group.

Young people often carry such a heavy misfortune alone, and even their parents who love and care for them are unaware of the existence of this sense of despair.The biggest reason for such problems is of course the lack of communication between each other.The early nineteenth century French essayist Joseph.Jubel has already said, ask all the young people!They will never admit what they don't know.Of course, young people today will have such an attitude sooner or later, and how such an attitude chills us as parents!A situation where parents and children run counter to each other arises.At this time, we tend to forget that this is a natural phenomenon of chicks fluttering their wings.Didn't we also claim the right to show our maturity in the boundless sky?How difficult it is to maintain ideological communication with children who are growing up!If there is no mutual respect for each other, once there is a gap between parents and children, it will take at least many years for it to disappear, right?

The reason why I adopt the form of letters is that I think that articles written silently on paper should be more likely to be accepted than serious orders or declarations.Someone once asked me: Did your son listen to the teachings in the masterpiece "Thirty Letters from an Entrepreneur's Father to His Son"?My answer to this person at the time was: Probably?On the topics raised in those Tablets, I dare say I did avoid a hot-faced argument with him.When father and son disagreed, I asked him to read a chapter of the book again before the argument heated up.As a result of doing so, we can hold a long conversation with peace of mind every time.When speaking too emotionally or mother-in-law, the listener will often plug their ears or close their hearts. At this time, expressing in words will impress the other party far more deeply than speaking, and the effect is amazing.

In the letter to my daughter, I wrote my personal views on life and business.I didn't express all the topics in a preaching or handout manner, and I didn't mean to ask her to take it as a standard.Likewise, I am not explaining to her theories about business problems.What I wrote is just some common sense that is easily forgotten in today's busy daily life, for her memorandum for reflection. I wholeheartedly support my daughter's belief that fulfillment is at the heart of happiness.It is not necessary for each individual to demonstrate the need to outperform the performance of others.A person only needs to achieve his own goal, no matter what the goal is or what level it is.In order to achieve a goal, effort is of course an indispensable factor, and effort often needs to be encouraged.Because young people are prone to make mistakes, and when they make mistakes, they may go to extremes due to disappointment, so they especially need the spiritual support of others.And what can make young people courageous is the enthusiasm and support given by their parents.Having lived for nearly sixty years, what I am going to present to my daughter through these letters are the things I have learned in my life.

In today's society, the number of working women is increasing day by day.Many companies have opened up new areas for women's employment, and have created unprecedented performance.The advent of this new era is entirely due to the centuries-long efforts and patience of women, and now it is all people in society who are receiving this blessing.In the new family life, not only the union of husband and wife has become stronger, but the quality of raising children who are still in infancy has also improved a lot.This is because both parents are more able to share the responsibility of raising children in terms of care and time.

In a family where both husband and wife work outside the home, it is inevitable that there will be some problems, and these problems should be properly handled and overcome one by one.The most important thing at this time is of course ideological communication, that is to say, both husband and wife must be flexible in their attitudes, and the greatest principle is to be courteous to each other.In addition, there is a very important point that each other should support each other's career and values.In this way, a happy family will surely come true.All women have known this for a long time.The rest are job transfers, job changes, diaper changes, taking the kids to the pediatrician, doing the dishes, doing the weekend grocery shopping, and so on.If a man is willing to cooperate with his wife in these aspects with a different attitude from the past, all problems in the family can be easily solved.

It is quite interesting that what my parents (and I believe your parents are also the same) said when they were close to seventy years old, they were similar to those of Confucius, Laozi, Aristotle, Horatius, etc. , Shakespeare, Bacon, Goethe, Emerson, Thoreau and countless other great men have left exactly the same words.My parents have never heard of the famous sayings of these great men, but the philosophy of life spoken out is the same as them.Yuz, I believe that no one will deny a sentence said by the Danish philosopher Kijgaur in the 19th century. Life can only be understood by looking back, and in order to live, one must hold a forward-looking attitude.

As long as they are encouraged and at the same time develop the insight to connect the pieces of life and understand things from a broader perspective, there is nothing in the world that young people cannot accomplish.It is with infinite love that I write these letters to my daughter and all my young friends, in the hope that my words will be of encouragement and support to them, and that they will stand up bravely to pursue their dreams, and with perseverance Spiritual struggle until success.