Chapter 16 Letter 15 Let's spend every day with all our strength!

When difficulties come one after another, instead of looking forward to the future, it is better to face the immediate problems with patience! my lovely daughter: Seeing how dejected you are often these days, anyone will feel that the burden you are carrying is huge, right?Your usual smile has disappeared from your face, I believe everyone has noticed it. You told me yesterday that in the corporate world, which has had its ups and downs, you seem to be mostly breathing at the bottom of the valley lately.No matter how seasoned a manager is, he will feel depressed to some extent when he loses a few important cadres, fails to pay on schedule from a major customer, and encounters so many blows when orders gradually decrease.However, this is not the case for everyone. Would you like to hear what I am going to say now?

It's not uncommon for a company to experience a streak of bad luck, or for a person to be hit by a streak of sadness or distress.Why this is so, no one knows.All I know is that fate plays tricks on this sentence.If you still complain about the unfairness of life and struggle day and night with moaning feelings, I will be speechless. However, if you can change your thoughts and attitudes and face the inevitable problems in personal or professional affairs with dignity, it is not impossible. arrive.What you need is the belief that you can take the initiative to solve problems and not be led by the nose.When problems come one after another, you must face them bravely and think foresight to regain lost ground.I hope you can achieve these two points, otherwise, you will have to stay in the status quo.Would you like to be hurt badly and only know how to blame others, and in a state of frustration, be in a state of anxiety all day long?

Remember when I said before that in order to take positive action, one must first become positive in one's mind?This may be even more difficult for you now.However, in order to overcome difficulties, a strong fighting spirit is indispensable.Your biggest task right now is to restore your self-confidence.At this time, what you need is to strengthen the belief that I will win. I've had many times when I wake up in the morning and I'm really not in the mood to face the real world.At the moment of waking up, all imaginable difficulties came to my mind, so that I was extremely frustrated.At this time, the most important thing is to say to yourself with a firm attitude: I will not lose, I will solve all difficulties, and I must win!No words can express the depth of my torment until I realized the importance of overcoming such morning depressions.In such a mood, it is of course impossible to live a fulfilling day!

When difficulties come one after another, the best way is to temporarily forget about the long-term goals of the company or individual, and treat the difficulties as short-term problems and focus on dealing with them.This is the daily way of life.In order to break through adversity, the basic step should be to adjust the mood and aim to get through each day (not a week, a month or a year, but a period of only 24 hours).No one can do such things as leaving footprints in history, or stepping into the future.Don't just think about the past or the future and ignore today.What should I do with the checks that have been issued for two weeks without receiving payment from major customers?I advise you not to worry about such things.The problem at this time is not whether the bank can pass the customs in two weeks, but how to find a way to ask the customer to pay the payment according to the contract.You also know that the customer is not incapable of paying, so there must be some reason for the delay in payment.What you should do is to meet with the other party today and discuss a solution (the three-thirds love meeting should be beneficial to both parties).At the same time, of course, you have to deal with other things with the same attitude.

This is when a little humor often goes a long way.When I first started my business, there was a man named John in the company.Mr. Spencer.Although John is in his seventies, he arrives at the office earlier than anyone else every morning, and he always has a smile on his face. He is my biggest support at all times (if he is still alive, I often think so).One day, when I felt that I had fallen into the depths of disappointment from which I could never recover (it was not just one day, but many days in succession), I was eager for words of comfort, and I told John what had happened.There are so many things in the world where he only said one word to me after listening to my distress!And I dare say, it will get worse and worse in the future!In the following years, we occasionally smiled at each other when we thought of the profound words he said at that time.In fact, how well he spoke!Things will go from bad to worse, which means that the situation is not so serious that it is completely hopeless, so there is hope, isn't it?

During that difficult time, what John advised me was to stay in my office for a while and think about the good side of my life.He wants me to think about such small things as health, a lovely family, a house that is extremely comfortable to live in, delicious meals, kind and trustworthy friends, and a happy life in the land of Baiyou where everything is satisfactory.In fact he was right.What has been listed above is only a small part of the treasures of life.People often don't know the blessings in the blessings. Once they are lost, they will know its value.You better know to have that view of life.

When dealing with problems on a daily basis, the most important thing is to have a lot of patience in order to get results.Although patience is the most difficult trait for young people to cultivate, it is an indispensable and important weapon in the battlefield of life, and you must equip it.The French physician and satirist Labre said long ago in the sixteenth century: A patient person can accomplish anything.Shakespeare said something similar: What a pity the impatient. You think you've sunk into the abyss of disappointment, but it's just difficulties coming up all at once.What you need at this moment is to sort them out, evaluate and solve them one by one patiently.I hope you learn the spirit of hurricanes and conquer every storm and every day.In fact, this method is not unique today. Many people used it to overcome difficulties in the past.However, I will teach you a method that many people have learned from experience in the past. Only when facing heavy pressure without losing critical thinking (ie, patience), can you win.

Bradus, a Roman comedy writer in 2000 BC, probably said this when facing a mountain of difficulties: Patience is the best way to solve all difficulties.I hope you can follow this sage admonition, and besides being completely patient, you can also properly use the method of taking the day as a unit to get through the difficulties smoothly (please don’t forget that there are many such things in the world!). love you father