Chapter 8 Take meeting challenges as a living habit

In the future, fighting against soldiers and covering up with water and earth is not only a chic attitude towards life, but also a practical and feasible solution. In life, there will be no spare power to be sad because of setbacks, only the courage of pawns crossing the river to move forward. Living is a trial.It is a great happiness in life to be able to face all kinds of difficulties, constantly come up with solutions, and cultivate one's courage and wisdom to live for challenges. And what's even better is to turn this happiness of being willing to accept challenges into a smile, which is always on the face. There is a saying in the Bible: When the strong run a race, they smile!Carol Levy, a writer of religious literature, also said: A truly brave person always has a smile on his face.I am not a Christian, but when I saw these two sentences, I was very moved.Later, I got to know Mr. Yokuma Ototake from Japan, and I saw courage and a smile from him.

I was honored to be invited to participate in the symposium held by Mr. Ototake Hirokusa when he came to Taiwan for the first time. In order to help readers raise issues of common concern, I carefully read his autobiographical prose work "Five Body" which has sold more than 3.9 million copies in Japan. Dissatisfied", I admire his spirit very much, and I also like his cuteness. Mr. Ototake Hirokuma was born with limb incompleteness, and was judged by the doctor as congenital severed limbs of unknown cause, which is commonly known as having no hands or feet, but he lived a very happy, confident, and dignified life.

Mr. Hirokuma Ototake, who loves sports, not only reads well, but also goes out on a snowy day when the auction is held in a department store.A sunny smile often appeared on his face, and he could not see the vicissitudes of life. The symposium was held on Friday night, and the venue was crowded with audiences who came here admiringly. During the question-and-answer period, some audience members quickly handed over notes to the host, Ms. Cao Youfang, asking: You have performed very well in all aspects. Well, with so much to overcome, don't you ever get frustrated, sad, or stressed out? Mr. Ototake Hirokuma pondered for a while and said: No, really not!

The audience in the audience showed unbelievable expressions, as if they were saying: How is it possible?I don't quite believe it. Ms. Wu Danru, a well-known writer sitting next to me, responded quickly and added: Mr. Yiwu, he was born to constantly overcome setbacks, so he didn't find it so difficult. Yes.I very much agree with Ms. Wu Danru's clever remarks. These setbacks in the eyes of ordinary people may not be called difficulties for Mr. Otobu Yangkuang. From the moment he was born, he has regarded overcoming setbacks as a habit. It has become one of the basic attitudes of life and a necessity for living. No amount of difficulties may be a problem for him, but to find A chance for a solution.

Make coping with stress a daily habit After reading Mr. Ototake Hirokuma's work "Five Bodily Dissatisfaction", I can understand him answering the audience: No, really not!Sincerity and ease.However, some listeners may still find it hard to believe.It seems to be questioning myself: People like me with arms and legs live a hard life, how can he live freely without arms and legs? In their puzzled expressions, I found that it is easy for us to impose our personal life experience on others by analogy.In particular, when encountering some bad and negative emotions, there is often a tendency to not see the good in others.For example: I find it difficult; you should also find it difficult.What I feel is impossible to succeed, you should also fail.

Be lovelorn, you must be very sad! You must be very sad to lose your job! How can you possibly be happy on such little money? He is so poor, you will never be happy marrying him. How can you sell something that I don't even want to look at? Similar comments not only repeatedly ignore the individual differences between people, but also fail to understand the value of differences.Also because of this, a person may lose the potential to be suitable for the right place, take it for granted to despise the achievements of others after hard work, and use it as an excuse for self-limitation.

Even facing challenges has become routine There are countless challenges in life, which will appear in front of us all the time.Everyone has different levels and may come up with different solutions.The most important thing is: to meet challenges as a life habit, and to solve problems as a daily routine. When you have the outlook on life of living for challenges, it is not only a chic attitude towards life, but also a practical and feasible solution.In life, there will be no spare power to be sad because of setbacks, only the courage of pawns crossing the river to move forward.