Chapter 21 Make ordinary days special

Every morning when you wake up, cherish this day as if it is the last day of your life; Every night before you go to bed, give thanks for the day as if it were the first day your dreams began. Live the special days very ordinary; live the ordinary days very special.This has been my attitude in life since a very young age. Until I got older and further understood the meaning of life and death, I added another principle to myself: when I get up every morning, cherish this day as the last day of my life; every night before going to bed, put Be grateful for this day as the first day your dream begins.

What impressed me deeply was: before the millennium, a reporter asked me: what are you going to do on such a special day on the last day of 1999?My answer is very ordinary: early in the morning, I have to go to the radio station to do a live program.Before noon, Zhang Luohao had lunch for the family of three, and then went to the Chinese medicine clinic where the mother was treated for stroke, and took the parents home for dinner and lunch break.Then I have to rush to the client to perform my consulting work, and I should not work overtime.At night, participate in the New Year's Eve Wishing Event!

It seems that it is indeed a compact and busy day.In fact, these itineraries have been scheduled long ago.In my mind, there is a funnel for time management. Naturally, I will put all the things that should be done in advance into the grid of the time plan, and integrate them into the life I am used to in a regular and orderly manner. New Year's Eve in the millennium; looking to the future in farewell A friend of Emerson once said to him: Tonight is the end of the world! He replied: I still live my life the way I want. This example can be used to explain open-mindedness in the face of danger, and it can also be said to cherish life.Even if you are about to lose everything, you can still walk to the end with a normal heart.

Saying goodbye to someone you once loved deeply, leaving a job that you have put in a lot, or ending a very meaningful day, you can face the last moment calmly and choose your favorite way to spend it. The last day of 1999, December 31st, happened to be Friday. On the surface, it seemed that it was not much different from other weekday weekends. However, because it was New Year’s Eve before the millennium, everyone’s The mood is very different.correct!This is the key point that the mood is different, because a little bit of different mood can make this special day have a very different interest and meaning in the ordinary itinerary.

I tried to use this slightly different mood as a venture fund, and opened a hope bank on this day.Ask people who meet me that day to tell me about the new hope of the millennium, I will record them one by one, and if time permits, I will ask them to sign their hopes, and then use a whole year of sincerity to serve He blesses, uses the energy of the soul as interest, and waits until the 21st century, and then cashes it out with him one by one! I have always been easy to be satisfied with the joy of my own planning, and I can also enjoy the surprises that may happen at any time in my life outside of the planning script.

On the last day of 1999, the script of my life was: in an automatic way, my friend Dawei sent me a music CD of Lisbon stories from Paris to wake me up slowly with a sweet dream.Then, grind the coffee beans that Zhuo's mother gave me, and make a cup of fragrant coffee for myself.It feels so good to wake up and still have a dream! While thanking others, don’t forget to thank yourself While driving along the way, I listened to my favorite singer Jacky Cheung all day, singing his latest album through 1999.At the intersection of waiting for the red light, recalling the happiest scenes in the past year, brewing a sweet atmosphere, convincing myself to buy the whole set of giant candles that I have seen several times but failed to buy when passing the gift shop, and reward myself for the past year s hard work.During my spare time at work, I took the time to call a few birthday readers who joined the Wu Ruoquan Readers Club website in the early days to share their life experiences and wish each other well.

During dinner with my parents, I announced to them my long-planned 2000 millennium travel plan for them, and thanked my parents for meeting and loving each other when they were young, so that I would have the opportunity to travel in my forties. , welcome the millennium with a mature outlook on life, rich emotions, and a heart full of love.Before going to bed, hug them and say: I love you!Let them go to sleep with a smile on their face. Then came my own time!Finally, I sneaked out of the city by myself, invited a few very good friends, went down the mountain and went to the seaside as I pleased, hatched dreams, talked about wishes, said some ridiculous things, and did some innocuous things.

That night, when I was in my thirties, I regained the innocence I had when I was thirteen years old, let go of my restrained body, and with the freest mind, I made an exception and played wildly from 1999 AD to 2000 AD before returning home. And after 2000 AD, I will thank God for still giving me many ordinary days, and I vow to live each day with meaning; of course, I will also encounter many special days, whether full of joy or frustration , I encourage myself: to live with a normal heart.