Chapter 35 Turn enemies into friends with time

When life can proceed calmly, gracefully, and at the angle we want, we forget the existence of time. There is often a thin line between cherishing life and wasting life.The key is how do you allocate your time and what do you do?Whether or not to do something now depends on a person's values.Life is limited, we must decide the priority of doing things and grasp the direction of life according to the importance and influence. Stephen is the author of "A Date with Success".Covey said: We need guidelines and guidance. Facing the turbulent world situation, no one can predict the future development. We can only act according to our own judgment.At this time, the goal is the compass in your heart, which can make your judgment correct.

The direction of life is like a compass; and time is like a clock.First use the compass to determine the direction, and then look at the clock to plan the progress.Adjusting the relationship between these two items is a very important thing in life management. Compass and clock are two concepts emphasized by modern time management scholars.It is worth pondering for everyone.Everyone's life stage and values ​​are different, so the so-called important things have different priorities. At this stage, there are a few things that are most important to me: 1. Enjoy family and friendship.2. Appreciate the beauty of life.3. Live more for others.4. Make good friends with time.

Living and being able to have a healthy body is the foundation of everything.In the journey of life, besides health, family affection and friendship are the most precious. From an altruistic point of view, think more about others There was a time when I was crazy about making a lot of hard-earned money, and it was good money; however, since my mother had a stroke, I suddenly experienced: If the price of making too much money is losing health, sacrificing time with family, or not being able to spend time with friends Sharing feelings, life must be lonely. However, it is not so easy to have health, family affection and friendship.

There are bound to be many setbacks in life. When you want to do things that you think are important, you may not always be able to do what you want, but don't give up because of these obstacles.When you encounter anything that doesn't go your way, think more about the good.I often share a concept with my friends: It is better to be thankful than to blame others!Thank God for testing us and training us to be better and stronger. Especially, when you are at your lowest ebb, you should think positively and welcome every new beginning with a smile.If you even give up on yourself and refuse to give yourself a chance, who can help you?

After preparing yourself, you still have to think about others. The most valuable thinking in modern marketing is to think about what customers need, not what you can sell?This is what I call: what it means to live for others. An average of three to four books are published every year. Many people ask me: How can I persevere when writing is so hard? In fact, there are times when you are tired when doing anything.Although the creation itself brings me a lot of fun, but enjoying the loneliness in the dead of night for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a moment of lethargy occasionally.But as long as I think that there are many readers waiting to read my new book, if I read more books and write more books, I can share them with more readers and help more people think, and I can quickly get rid of the desire to be lazy. idea.

Learning to do time management is to buy more time and do more important things.I think writing is a matter of benefiting others and oneself. Sharing good ideas can help readers buy more time and do more important things. Don't be hostile to time forever, and don't be tit-for-tat with yourself There are many books on time management on the market, and there are many secrets in them, which will definitely help everyone in the race against time. I think it is very valuable. However, I would like to share a more alternative point of view, that is, make good friends with time, and don't be hostile to time forever.At a certain stage in life, it should be possible to turn enemies into friends with time, and not be so tit-for-tat.

Determine the direction of life earlier and prepare for it.Don't be afraid of the plan, and don't worry about the variables in the realization of the plan. As long as you think positively, there are alternatives at any time. When you encounter setbacks, you can still break through the difficulties quickly. When life can proceed calmly, gracefully, and at the angle we want, we forget the existence of time. I believe this is another new realm of time management.