Chapter 54 like.life and myths

Do we need to listen to someone who has neither spouse nor children teach us how to love spouse and children? "like."Life and Study" is a bestseller in the popular culture market, author Leo.Buscaglia toured the United States to sold-out venues and listened to mesmerized audiences who missed him as a modern-day savior. Love is the modern gospel preached by Leo. He believes that as long as you love someone and show your love with concrete actions, wonderful results can be brought about.Leo is good at mentioning his parents and his childhood life in an emotional tone, which is fascinating and moving.The problem is that this preacher, exemplified by his personal experience, lived a different life from the average person.He repeatedly emphasized the need for mutual patience and commitment between people, and believed that marriage is the combination that can bring growth the most; he described the beauty of family life in a warm tone, but this greatest lover was not married and had no children. Going around alone preaching that everyone should love their spouses and children.

From time to time in human history, great lovers appear, who beat their wives at home, but are full of love for distant humans.It's not difficult to love someone who has nothing to do with your past, or just spend a few minutes or hours with it briefly; it's not difficult to hug a stranger lovingly, even at the risk of being slapped in the face. easy.But loving and cuddling a spouse who relentlessly criticizes and ridicules your personality or impotence is not so easy. To put it bluntly, Leo is not an authority, he is just a bystander, telling others what to do, does not mean that he can do that when he encounters the same situation.

Leo exaggerates the effect of love and cuddling.Too many cases tell us that love and hugs cannot cure depression, neurosis, and drug addiction; they cannot even prevent marriages from breaking down, because many marriage frictions do not come from lack of love, but from the inability to resolve the relationship between the two. basic difference. The whirlwind created by Leo is only a temporary illusion, and soon everyone will know that love is not so magical.