Through the most vivid stories and analysis, this book teaches you how to Bad things are easy to say, hard words are soft to say, big talk novels, Jokes are said coldly, serious words are lightly spoken, urgent words are slow to speak, Make a long story short, tell the truth, talk less nonsense, Speak from your heart. Good words and bad words are only in one thought tell you something new There was a husband who made out with his wife, stroked her, and praised with great interest: Your skin is so fine to the touch, it is definitely not like a forty-year-old woman. The wife laughed: Yes!That's what everyone who touched it recently said.

we!A slap in the face.The husband yelled: How many people have you touched recently?You are honest! The wife covered her face and cried, "That's what everyone said!"Every lady in the skin care center says so. ● This is true, but no matter how you look at it, it looks like a joke, right?The problem is, when you look closely, there are jokes like this all around us.Just because a sentence is wrong, it turns comedy into tragedy, and turns a good thing that is about to be done into a bad thing. Everyone can say something, but not everyone can say it; there are things to say, but not everyone can say good things.

The reason for not saying good things is simple because he didn't think much about it. for example: A friend of mine recently built a tool shed in the backyard of his new house. The tool room was bought from ready-made materials and then assembled by myself. It was specially used to store gardening tools such as lawnmowers, shovels, and hoes. But my friend happily assembled halfway through the assembly, and his neighbor shouted through the wall: It is illegal for you to build a house indiscriminately. My friend was so angry that he went to the construction management office to ask, and the answer he got was that it is not illegal to build a tool house within ten feet by ten feet; it is illegal only if it exceeds.

He went back and measured the tool shed he bought, and it was ten feet by twelve feet, two feet too much, so he took it back and replaced it with a legal size. After the tool house was set up, he came to me and said: I have to go and embarrass my neighbor. I want to tell him that Chinese people are not easy to be bullied. I went to the government unit to ask, and the building is absolutely legal now. He is welcome. sue! Why do you say that?I persuaded him: Why don't you change the way and tell him thank you very much, thank you for reminding me, otherwise my tool house would be two feet too long, and it would be useless to build it because it was demolished illegally.Didn't you still let him know that you asked the government unit, is it a legal building now?

The friend thought about it and thought it was reasonable, so he did it.As a result, not only did he not offend the neighbors, but he also made good friends. ● Tell another story. There was a man who quarreled with his wife over a trivial matter and wanted a divorce. The reason was not only not a bad thing, but a good thing. That day, his wife bought a good-quality grouper and specially called the office: When you leave the office, call back so that I can cook it in the wok. This grouper will not be successful for a minute more or less. The wife had a good idea. When the husband went out, she steamed the fish. When the husband came in, it happened to be served.

But when her husband was off work, he just finished calling and said he was about to go out, when a client suddenly called and was delayed for 20 minutes. Oops!Sending off the client, the husband thought to himself, and quickly dialed the phone home again: Sorry, I have something to do, so I can leave now. When the wife heard it, she jumped up over there: What?Are you still in the office?Don't you know that fish tastes bad when it's cold?Do you know how much this grouper is? The husband didn't say much, and drove back in a hurry, thinking all the way, anxious all the way, plus it was late, hungry, and his stomach hurt urgently, and he almost ran into someone on the road.When I entered the door, I said angrily: When the fish is cold, it will be cold!Can't it be hot?

The wife is also angry: You are dying to eat good fish, and I will give you cold ones in the future. Of course, the two had a quarrel, and they yelled loudly, scaring the children to tears. A good grouper was placed on the table, and no one ate it, and they almost got divorced. You said, can they talk? If the wife, like my friend who built a tool shop, can say from another angle: Don't worry!Don't worry!When the fish is cold, it can be heated in the microwave oven for a minute. Be careful when driving, we will wait for you. Wouldn't the husband appreciate his wife's thoughtfulness?

● Being able to speak and not being able to speak is often between that thought. In a single thought, he knows how to endure, how to take a step back and think about how to say bad things softly, and how to say cruel words softly, and there may be a comedy ending. At that thought, he blurted it out without thinking, it might be a tragic ending. Although many people praise me for my eloquence, I never think so, and feel that when I was young, I always said the wrong thing.Even to this day, every night I still think about what I said during the day and review it to see if it is inappropriate or if there is a better way to speak.

Because of this, the cases I put forward in this book are all the most real, small things that happen around us. And from those little things, we can often see great knowledge; from those simple words, we can often touch the depths of the soul. ● Now, let me stop talking nonsense, open up the chatterbox, and speak from the bottom of my heart!