Chapter 77 ★Do not force anything

Of the many effective ways to simplify your life, one was the last one I figured out: Don't ask for anything.If something is unattainable, it is better to let it go. We are brought up with the wrong idea that if something is impossible, be it business affairs, relationships or anything that requires effort, we are taught that we have to work harder because, always It will be done one day.It is with this belief that millions have led a life of hardship and much avoidable suffering.Obviously, working hard to achieve a satisfactory result under reasonable circumstances is not the same as doing something that will never be achieved.

You can't drive a square stake into a round hole.And people want us to do this kind of unreasonable thing, basically, it's just to motivate us to do certain things, like to motivate us to work for a long time, even if it's not right, or it takes a lot of effort. No matter the price, I will not hesitate.When I look back at my life, I can see a fact: Many things that can be solved, most of the time, are relatively easy; It's difficult.The two are not the same.I finally realized that if some things are done for nothing, I would rather divert my energy and do other things. If you can throw away those difficult things in life that will never be solved, and then spend your time and energy on some simple things, your life will definitely be much more comfortable.