Chapter 78 ★Qiliu give up changing other people's minds

I have a good friend who has been in a state of chaos for several years, and she has been trying to escape from this shackles. In fact, she has not tried as hard as I have to change herself.Over the past few years, I have spent a lot of time and energy trying to let her grow on her own.The crux of her problem is that she's always just talking, not taking serious action, and she's not even interested in these things at all. Since I started simplifying my life, there is one thing that makes me feel more at ease: letting other people do what they want.Once I understand this fact, it is easier for me to make some trade-offs. When something happens, I don't want to change other people's minds.For others to change themselves, usually they have to be ready to change.Ultimately, we all have to get out of our own ruts.In fact, what everyone really needs is support and encouragement, whether it's a child or a spouse.

Now I realize this truth.God!I am finally free and I can finally release these trapped energies to use them on enjoying life and more meaningful purposes.