Chapter 88 ★86 Get out of groups that scare you

When Gibbs started accepting any groups that invited him and gave them a place in his life, I never joined a group.When we started to simplify our lives, one of his changes was to leave these groups, because he felt that his heart was no longer in these groups. It's amazing how quickly a heap of membership and its attendant obligations and guilt can fall upon you if you're not careful.Just the financial drain, like endless dues and taxes, and cheap dinners ruined by boring speeches.Then, the lack of organized order in the group, coupled with a bunch of fanatical laymen messing around, only brings frustration and frustration; Being so small has caused great emotional and psychological damage.

Here, Gibbs has a way of leaving these groups.Take out all your membership cards, I believe that most of you are bluffed into it.Stack membership cards into two piles, and stack cards that meet at least two of the following three criteria into one pile: (1) Organizations that must be joined professionally. ⑵ Group gatherings that you are eager to attend. ⑶ You never regret joining a member's group. Then, return all the other piles of substandard membership cards.If you are embarrassed to cancel, let the validity period of membership expire!You will find that you take back a lot of your time again.