Chapter 3 What is the second letter to fail the entrance exam!

Failure or disappointment is often the time when there is another village My unhappy daughter: To be honest, you've been a little hard to mess with these past few days.To hear you cursing yourself as a worthless, pathetic loser, or even say that your life is like broken porcelain dropped on the floor almost makes me angry.Porcelain that fell to the ground and shattered was of no further use because the pieces could not be restored to their original shape.However, your precious life is just beginning. I know it's a big blow to you that you didn't get into the university you wanted.I also understand the fact that this is intolerable for you.This is the first time in your life that you experience the greatest disappointment.However, at this time you have to stand up strong and get used to being disappointed.Because disappointment and joy are equally a part of life.When it's coming, you can't stop it.If every time you encounter a setback in the future, you can't regard it as a temporary setback or a trial chain that must be overcome, and you will be as discouraged as this time to an undeniable degree, then you will have a day of disappointment and collapse in the future I hope you will keep this in mind.If you succumb to disappointment and don't even have the will to try again, you're a real loser, you know?

Frustrated expectations are a common occurrence.And it often happens in surefire situations.This is what Shakespeare said in his work "As You Like It".Since your grades in school over the years are quite good, you think it should be a matter of course to be admitted to your ideal school.You have unconsciously assumed that this is the inevitable outcome.We should learn a lesson from this, right?Nothing should be taken for granted when preparing to pass the big show in life's course.In case of failure, immediately respond with prepared alternatives, this is the attitude everyone should have.Because you did not take such measures to lose your reputation this time, you have been deeply traumatized, making it impossible for you to accept this fact.I also lacked thoughtfulness and didn't talk to you about the psychological preparation in case of failure. This is my negligence, and I deeply apologize to you for this.

In short, what I expect from you now is to cheer up and continue to struggle.Twists and turns are the normal state of life, and you will experience this more and more as you grow older.Such is life.What you call such twists and turns, and how you deal with them, all depend on your attitude.You can take my advice as a challenge as I said earlier.Or, like most people, you can see it as a problem, bad luck, crisis, or disaster, and give up your will to try again, using it as an excuse to admit defeat.One is called Frank.Howard.The people of Omariel once said: Life is a succession of bad luck.I think that's what the loser said (I'm ashamed to have the same name as this guy).

Think about your current situation!Your high school graduation record is outstanding.You have demonstrated courage and endurance both in and out of school.You are not only in good health, but also in good looks.Family can be regarded as Antai, and you probably don't know how your parents love you.You have never been short of anything financially, and you still have pretty good job opportunities.You still have a boyfriend who prostrates himself under your pomegranate skirt.Isn't a person with so many good conditions worthy of pride?But now you are a bit depressed, how do we deal with this?

I remember you once said that there are several excellent universities in Canada that have the departments you want to study.Why don't you get rid of the mentality that I am a loser, and use the attitude of me as an optimist, and ask other universities?Your high school grades are so good, as long as you are willing to apply to other universities, I believe your efforts will be rewarded. What you are determined to learn is business management.Other universities use the same textbooks as the university you chose as your first choice.Although the lineup of professors is different, you must know that the most influential person in your future is not a professor you met by chance when you were a student, but yourself.Never lose the dominance over your own life, I hope you will never forget what I said.My life is over.Recently you often say things like this to me, in fact, is your life really over like this?The things that will be encountered in the long course of life can really be described as ups and downs.Perhaps we may be crushed by a major blow, but we found a new way of life, so we turned the steering wheel in time and sailed in a more ideal direction. This may be a comforting opportunity.

Too many young people have given up their original aspirations because they encountered the same obstacles as you are currently. Such people not only shrink back because of this, but also lament that they are not giving, and become more and more timid.What a sad thing this is!What matters is not the objective events that shape our lives, but how we deal with those events that occur, and the resulting individual lives are shaped.Don't let fate stand in your way.When you are in adversity, that is when you challenge your destiny.You must not surrender to fate!Of course it is very easy to give up. This can be confirmed from the daily life of most people.However, are those people the ones you admire as you walk your life with your head held high?A man who is unwilling to surrender to fate, when the door is shut, knocks on another door until one is opened and he is welcomed in.Those who know how to do this at a young age cannot be unsuccessful in the end.

It's impossible for everyone to be a king or queen, but that's probably the only impossible thing on our life table, right?As long as you deal with life's twists and turns with a positive attitude, any other wish should be possible.What you need at this time is to keep shouting to yourself: I will win!I will win!I will win! .As long as you have such a firm belief, your heart will automatically send out instructions one after another, teaching you the actions you should take.This is because your heart will basically come up with the necessary solutions in conjunction with the facts you have gathered.

A great way to do this is to ask a successful person why he or she is where he or she is.This person will definitely tell you about his (her) hard work on endurance and challenges, as well as the experience of sometimes walking on a detour in order to achieve the goal?Although you didn't get into the university you were looking for, who knew that this detour would not bring you better results?Such a thing can be as far as any setbacks are concerned.Therefore, what you should do is to drive failure out of your heart so that it will never dwell in your heart again. Start to take a detour and find your new goal!Although there are no indicators on this road, as long as you carefully observe the rocks or stumps near the bumps, you will definitely find some clues.

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