Chapter 24 write to teenage friends

You may have noticed among your classmates and neighbors that there are young people who do not listen to their parents.You may have also heard some young friends who are used to talking about the generation gap.You may even have seen some young people who take anti-tradition, anti-ethics, and anti-restraint as a kind of air and expression, so you think that this is the unyielding generation or the unrestrained generation, which further encourages That kind of arrogance. However, this mentality of young people who rebel only for the sake of rebellion is not the latest, but very old and outdated.Because it's been around since the days of your parents or grandparents.The people they were back then are you who are now. They even have a stronger sense of resistance than you do now, and they have more tricks than you do now.Therefore, the way you are doing now is very well understood by those who have been here in the older generation, and they have also experienced it personally.It can be said that there is no so-called generation gap at all.However, why can't the parents and elders allow the new generation of young people to resist?Let me tell you, the reason is that people of the older generation have already realized their past mistakes, and the longer the days and the older they are, the more regretful they will be. Such regrets?

Teen friends!You must know the term May Fourth Movement, right?Please do the math, how many years ago was that?In that raging movement, anti-tradition and anti-ethics are also part of its content, especially the wave of this part, which agitates the emotions of young people the most fanatical.And until today, the aftermath is still lingering.During this period, there were several times of great turmoil. One generation or two passed, and although everything in the tradition has not been completely transformed, nothing new has been able to be established, resulting in today's unsustainable A state of emptiness, isn't that enough for people who have come here to regret it?How can the new generation replace the inherent traditional ideas with something new?

The Chinese social structure has always been based on the family system.The teaching power of the so-called children's teachings can always make their children outstanding.There are countless stories about the three relocations of Mencius's mother, as well as many successful historical figures, such as Ouyang Xiu, Wang Anshi, Yue Fei, and even Hu Shizhi in modern times.As a child, how can you not listen to your parents' teachings; and as a parent, why not pay attention to the family education of your children? Here is an excerpt from a passage in the article written by Wang Anshi, a famous official in the Northern Song Dynasty, who offered sacrifices to Wang Huishenfu: In the past, Uyghurs held the hand of the son, and returned to the words that what the son did was actually ordered by my mother.Said: such a person can be a friend.My mother knows the child better than the beginning, and the son becomes virtuous in the end, not as much as I am.This passage shows how important the sincerity of serving one's mother and the sincerity of one's mother's teaching are to a person's success or failure in life and making friends!

Young people should take pride in obeying the wise teachings of their parents, and not think it fashionable to be rebellious.It should have been so in the past, and it will be so in the future.In the middle, there is its own unshakable truth. (Number 70, Nine, Seven)