Chapter 27 Hypocrisy goes unnoticed

Deliberately pretending to be good to others and living a wronged life is not good for others!At best, it's just delaying the time to solve the problem, to no avail! When you start to hate someone from the bottom of your heart, the other person must know.No matter whether he notices it slowly or immediately, even if you can pretend all the way for some purpose, he will tear you apart one day. There is a saying that describes others doing good deeds silently: Doing good does not want others to know.To do good, but not to let others know about it; it is indeed a virtue.But I use an approximate pronunciation to extend this sentence into: Hypocrisy does not keep people from knowing.Change the meaning to: Pretending to be nice to others is useless!The other party will definitely feel it.

Once the hypocrisy is exposed, it will definitely cause a breakdown in the relationship between each other.Instead of only coming to clean up the mess at that time, it is better to ease the tension between the two parties in advance, so that I don't have to be so tired of pretending.The relationship between people is quite delicate, and only by being sincere can it last for a long time.Any hypocritical communication will never stand the test of time.I'm afraid it's been a hundred years since I want to look back, so I regret it! Is it sincere?The other party must feel it I used to teach telemarketing courses in several large companies as a consultant.It seems difficult to master this technique of relying on telephone communication and sales skills to achieve marketing goals, but the most difficult thing to learn is actually the part of sincerity, which no one can teach unless the students themselves are awakened. .

Some companies do telemarketing really well!The politeness and sales skills of colleagues in answering the phone are very good, but in the face of high-pressure work, you can't help venting your emotions on the phone. In the long run, it is still unsuccessful. For example: After answering a long-winded call from a client, explaining one by one in a soft voice during the process, and then yelling after hanging up the phone: Poor ghost!If you don't buy it, you still ask so many questions!Damn!You're so stupid, it's not clearly stated in the advertisement, but you still keep asking about the installment payment procedures

Perhaps, after hanging up the phone, the customer really has no chance to hear the voice of the telemarketer cursing, but he can definitely feel the sincerity. Emotional impatience often makes people lose the rationality to put themselves in the other person's shoes.On the surface, after completing the communication or sales procedures, it is impossible to deeply understand the other party's mood and understand his real needs.This is the part that no amount of communication skills or marketing skills can make up for.Business is definitely not doing well! There is a friend who runs a fast food restaurant. After the customer checks out and leaves, he puts away his hypocritical smile, throws his cup and plate and curses: 0AK, AOK! (meaning: Difficult to serve customers!) Even if the customer hadn't heard the yelling that came with the invoice, he would never come to the door again!

The reason is very simple. It must be that the food or service of the fast food restaurant does not meet the needs of customers, so they will show that they are difficult to serve. The owner of the restaurant knows that the other party is dissatisfied, but he does not try to solve it, and does not listen to the voice of the other party's complaints. Instead, he responded with an empty fake smile, not to mention the obvious taste of hatred in the smile, (you don’t think everyone else is very nervous or stupid!) Who wants to spend money to find guilt? Treating hypocritically, the relationship between the two cannot last long

Hypocrisy is unknown!Deliberately pretending to be good to others and living a wronged life is not good for others!At best, it's just delaying the time to solve the problem, to no avail!It may even fall into a vicious circle. Therefore, hiding inner dissatisfaction but pretending to be nice to others is a very negligible mentality. It is obviously a cowardly behavior that cannot face reality.I don't know how to deal with my emotions, and I don't want to spend my energy on solving problems. I just want to maintain the illusion of a short-term peace and prosperity, which is full of ostrich mentality!

But the world is full of such people!Some people have been in an elastic and fatigued relationship for several years, and they no longer love each other, and their hearts are no longer on him, but they still pretend to be loyal, thinking that this is a kind and responsible performance.In fact, this is more cruel than anything else! Don’t love each other and refuse to explain it, and continue to pretend to be in the same relationship as before, usually because you don’t want to face the problem, and you don’t want to take the blame for your betrayal, so you would rather procrastinate on with hypocrisy!But how long can it last?

On the surface, the model couples who are loving and loving, once the scandal of the husband having an extramarital affair broke out, not only immediately shattered the image of the two, but also made many unmarried men and women even more hesitant about the necessity of marriage. A love that is tasteless to eat and a pity to discard is hard to end well!When the other party eagerly asks the partner who has no love: What's the matter with you?Do you have something on your mind?I always feel that you are cold and weird. Even if you get a thousand or a hundred times, the answer you get is always: no!It is also impossible to restore the feelings that are losing temperature day by day, and in the end it still has to be frozen three feet; it is not a day's cold!Regrettably, both of them came to the end where they had nothing to say.