Chapter 9 Chapter 8: Shameless Old Bean's Conspiracy

Mission Impossible Impossible mission. You have done it, I told you to do it; It's none of my business that you're ruined. That's how it is, this shameless old man!Xiaoqiu slammed Xiaomei's hand, walked to the side, and scolded fiercely: No wonder he wants you to teach his son, organize materials for him, and put slides for him. Now I understand everything, you explain!you!How are you doing with him? Nothing!Xiaomei covered her face and began to cry: I won't tell you what happens.Having said that, it's nothing, what can he do to me? But, didn't you say that he has been chasing you since the last semester last year?We were not together at that time, what happened then?

No la!No la! Xiaoqiu's anger still persisted: I understand now, no wonder that shameless old man has been so cruel to me this past year, so I became his rival in love. Don't speak so harshly, okay?Xiaomei stomped her feet and cried even louder: What kind of rival is not a rival in love, I told you, it's okay! She yelled the word "nothing" very loudly, and several people in the girls' dormitory poked their heads out. ● I heard you had a fight with Xiaomei? Unexpectedly, someone heard about it the next day, and it was none other than that shameless old bean's secretary, Miss Zhou, lecturer Zhou.

While making photocopies, Ms. Zhou pretended to be fine and said: Xiaoqiu!Be smart, you will graduate soon, and the director will approve the graduation distribution. Where do you want to be assigned?Xiao Qiu!There are so many girls. The director has decided to keep Xiaomei as a teaching assistant. She will be promoted to lecturer in two years. Why do you block her future?Xiaoxiao: Besides, you also have to consider your own future! ● What a fucking bitch!Xiao Qiu scolded: I heard that the surnamed Zhou had an affair with Shameless Old Dou, now I figure out how she was promoted back then.Shameless old bean had better be smarter, be careful I poke him out!

stab?how do you pokeXiaomei asked: What evidence do you have?Be careful that he assigns you to an outer island. Assigned to the outer island?Xiaoqiu smiled: With my grades and my qualifications as a department representative, he put me on the island?great!Where does he share!Biting his lower lip with his upper teeth, he thought for a while: Yes!You suggested that he assign me to an outer island some other day.Then we spread the news everywhere, saying that the director regarded me as a thorn in the side and would assign me to an outer island. Xiaomei's eyes widened: why?Why?Are you really going to leave me?Are you really going to the Outer Islands?

joke!I'm not going to the outer island, but I want to stay by your side!Put your voice down, and say next to Xiaomei's ear: . ● In just a few days, half of the academy knew that Xiao Qiu had offended the director, and the director wanted to assign him to an outer island. Of course, there are also some gossip.Who can't see that the director looks for Xiaomei all day long?No one could tell, the way the director looked at Xiaoqiu. Only the director is ignorant of these ups and downs, which is no wonder, because the person involved is always the most earless person. Before graduation, the distribution list was announced, and Xiao Qiu was indeed assigned to the outer island.

Everyone was stunned, not expecting this to happen.Xiao Qiu laughed.Because everyone's astonishment is his sharp weapon. ● The day after the list was announced, the principal called the director. I've heard about you and a female student, Xiaomei, but I still don't believe it.Later, it was rumored that you blocked her boyfriend, and that department represented Xiaoqiu. I still thought, impossible!The headmaster handed the distribution list to the director: Tell me!Xiaoqiu is from Taipei, and his grades are the first. Why do you divide him so far?Is it for your convenience?you say!

It is the student who wants to go.said the director. joke! it is true!He asked Xiaomei to tell me.The director was so anxious that he was sweating. It was he who asked Xiaomei to find the media!The principal suddenly stood up: Do you know how many calls I received this morning? ● The distribution list disappeared from the bulletin board, and after a while, it was posted again, Xiaoqiu, my God!Xiaoqiu was actually detained in school and made a teaching assistant. Xiaomei was replaced and went to a famous girls' school nearby. It was my mistake.While posting, Lecturer Zhou said to the onlookers: At that time, the director put Xiaoqiu’s materials aside. I thought they were assigned to the outer islands, but in fact they stayed in the department.

Wow!Xiaoqiu was finished, and stayed next to the thorn in his side.Someone said narrowly. No way!Lecturer Zhou turned around, rubbed and spread his hands together, and said with a smile: The director has already resigned at noon today. have something to say good!The story is over. Guess what I'm going to talk about in this chapter? It is a special skill of speaking to let go. Letting go, to put it simply, is to let go of the words, or let the words go. To put it more plainly, it is to say the harsh words first or to give you a hint. Of course, the knowledge of letting go is great, let me analyze it for you!

◎Little man first, gentleman second The Chinese often say that the villain comes first and the gentleman last, which means to put the ugliness at the front and let everyone figure out the conditions so that they don't look bad later. The most basic word is a warning. Be careful, if you chase his girlfriend, he will find someone to beat you up. What a clear statement!You can say this in person, or you can let Secretary Zhou say Xiaoqiu like in the previous story!You also have to consider your own future! It's easiest if you say it yourself.But if it passes through others, then letting go of the words will be very useful.

for example: Your third party's secretary is on the phone with your secretary, and his secretary says he's going to raise your price. He was letting go, he was afraid that you would get angry all of a sudden, and he didn't dare to say it himself, so he tried to find out what you said through his secretary. If you pretend you don't know, he will really go up. When you find that the price increase is unreasonable, can you not react immediately? So, you can stand next to the secretary and get angry on the spot: Fuck him, it's okay!We change factories. Your voice should be loud enough for the other person to hear.

You can also ask the secretary to make another phone call to the secretary of the other party, and say politely: I secretly hinted to the boss, he seems very upset, you'd better react to your boss, don't get stiff.To rise, let's talk about it after a while!What's more, many other factories have come to grab your business recently! Isn't this indirect talk great? Because it is an indirect battle and exploring each other's truth and reality, it can not hurt people's feelings. ◎I didn't ask him to say it! Talk about being kind.Another advantage of speaking indirectly is that you don't have to admit it. For example, you want to transfer an important cadre to a unit he doesn't like. You first ask the secretary to leak the news while chatting, and then wait and see the other party's reaction. Sure enough, he was furious and came to the door. If you don't want to offend him, it can be said that I never said that!You can also shout: whoever said it, find that person!How could I transfer out such an important partner as you? You can even call the secretary to scold in person: Did you go out and talk nonsense? The problem is that the other party may also be aware that the words have already been let go. Is there something about him that makes you dissatisfied?Shouldn't he be packing his own bags to save himself from an embarrassing death?Does he need to work on improving?Is it time for him to invite his wife to visit yours? Come on, is it great? ◎Do not show hair Letting go may also mean stating the bottom line clearly. for example: A certain dance troupe was going to perform in China, and it was invited by a very important troupe, supported by a large group of domestic arts and culture circles.I heard that there will be a nude performance in the dance, but that is not allowed by the official you represent. Should you say it first, or last? Are you going to keep quiet for a while, and wait until the art and literature circles are raving about it and the tickets are sold out?Or wait for the nudity to appear and be arrested as a criminal?Or, you wait for him to finish the performance, and then fine him? If you're smart, it's best to say so before their dance troupe lands or even sells tickets.You can arrange a press conference, and then arrange a reporter to ask about a certain dance troupe's performance. So you answered calmly: As long as they abide by the laws of our country, we absolutely welcome them.However, if they think they can walk around the edge of the law, we must not be relentless. Say the ugly words early, so as not to turn his face in the future, and prevent him from becoming a climate.In the end, you have to give in. ◎Ugly words first Of course, speaking is more commonly used in politics and diplomacy. For example, if the head of state of a country is coming to visit, and you are the head of the host country, hold a press conference or find a place to give a speech the day before his arrival, expressing your welcome to the other party, your vision for the summit meeting, and your commitment to the people of your country. , The bottom line that you stick to in the negotiation, speak out. Why did you say it, and who did you say it to? In addition to speaking to your own people, you are speaking to the other party! Your words are the most ruthless. Because he was about to get on the plane, and the people of his own country were already looking forward to the good fruits he would bring back, so he had no choice but to do so. At this time, if he hears your speech, if he is not satisfied, can he call the brakes? Most of the time, he bites the bullet and comes.And before he came, he already knew the bottom line of your negotiation. He knew that you had publicly stated the bottom line to his own people. Therefore, everyone took a step back and looked for something to talk about. Wouldn't it be much better than getting to the negotiating table only to find out that each other refused to give in and broke up unhappy? ◎I guessed that he would be like this Let's talk, the more important function is to block the seat, to block the opponent's seat first. During the election, you are afraid that your opponent will invite you to join his camp in the future and give you the highest position, which will cause the people to abandon the insurance effect. So, you said early on that before voting, they would look for me and invite me to join the cabinet, please don't be fooled. He really meant this at first, and thought it was an excellent move, but once you say it, he won't be able to make it. You can also tell Xiaoqiu in the previous story that the director chased Xiaoqiu’s girlfriend and sexually harassed Xiaomei on campus. In order to eliminate Xiaoqiu’s thorn in his side, he would send Xiaoqiu to an outer island for internship. The news got out, the rumors were whispered, and the content seemed to be true, it was really unfair, and it was really unpleasant, so would the director still dare to do this?If he did it, can he not be unlucky? ◎After a feint, there is always a hard blow Practicing martial arts pays attention to the reality in the virtual, the virtual in the real, and the combination of the virtual and the real. The same goes for letting go.He made a false move, and you also made a false move. It seems that the two sides seem to be talking and laughing, but they are actually competing in secret.Here I must remind young friends!If you are a newcomer in society, don't ignore what others say. What he said seemed false, but if you didn't respond, his falsehood became reality. He let others say, as long as you have the strength, or master his weakness, you should respond immediately and put the words back.As a result, he relented and said he hadn't said those words.You can also take a step back and say: I did not respond that way. So, it seems like a misunderstanding.He didn't lose, you won! ◎The main general will never oppose the deputy If you are a political figure, you should pay more attention to the words of the other party's deputy. He used his second hand to let it go hard, and you must use his second hand to put it back hard.Because you are the deputy, you can let it go a little bit, you are behind, as long as you don't say a word, it means approval. On the contrary, as long as the other party softens and scolds his deputy, you can also come out to clarify and scold your deputy. remember!In the battle of letting go of words in the political circle, you must not use your own general to face the enemy's lieutenant, let alone go out in person to face other people's lieutenants. Otherwise, you just fought against each other, and you have already lost because of your different identities. Where did you lose? Losing is when you show you're no one, and your frizz. ● sorry!This chapter is too poisonous.But that is a common way of speaking in society, and I can't help but write. You can use it, but you can’t understand it!