Chapter 11 Chapter 10 The Strip Dancer

Since he was allowed to get in the car, He should make up the ticket. Who else is missing?Seeing that the tables were almost filled, Lao Liu turned to ask his wife, and suddenly a shadow flashed in his mind: Oh no!Put it in a low voice: I forgot to tell the third child not to bring that woman. You mean the beef dancer?No way!They just know each other. Just met?Old Liu stared: Why didn't he bring the woman he just met?If he wants to bring it, I have to hit the wall. He wouldn't be ashamed to bring that, and it hasn't arrived yet, maybe it won't come! ● Happy birthday!Suddenly a person appeared from outside the door, it was the third child, waved his hands around, turned around, pulled out another woman from behind the door, and said loudly: "Introduce a dancer to everyone, Miss Mimi!"

The eyes of the guests at the four tables were all lit up, which was caused by Miss Mimi's sequined long cheongsam. oops!Oops.Mrs. Liu cried out badly, and patted her husband: "Don't worry, I'll take care of it and ask her to sit at the last table." Come!Happy birthday to my big brother!The third child actually pulled Mimi over, and the woman tilted her neck, bent over, and called out coquettishly: "Brother Liu, happy birthday!"Longevity!He bent over to Mrs. Liu who was standing in front again: This is my sister-in-law!The sister-in-law looks really blessed.After finishing speaking, he sat down on Mrs. Liu's seat.

The third child was also ignorant, so he turned around and moved a chair over: "Come on, come on!"Everyone, move your seats and squeeze in a little more excitement! There are still two empty seats at the table in the back!Mrs. Liu said loudly on purpose: It's okay, if you like to sit at this table, I will sit at that table. I thought that the third child would know how to go to that table, but saw the woman smile: Thank you, sister-in-law!The sister-in-law is really considerate. ● The wife of Commissioner Wang has already asked Mimi curiously: What kind of dancer are you?

this modern dance!Old Liu took the words, sat back in his seat, and looked at Miss Mimi: "It's a pleasure to meet you. I've seen you for a long time. I often hear the third child mention you." Ouch!Will the third child still mention me?Really! In the middle of talking, Mrs. Chen also spoke: Where did you learn modern dance?Have you had a press conference recently? Are you asking me?Mimi turned her face: I dance without a teacher. right!Hearing that Miss Mimi is very talented, Lao Liu glared at Lao San: Didn't you just meet at the press conference? yes!yes!The third child was still in a daze.

Just as the food was being served, Representative Luo raised his glass: Come, come, come!Respect birthday star! The people at the end table also came to toast, and pulled Mrs. Liu who was standing next to her. ● After the meal, although Mrs. Liu was sitting at the outermost table, she kept listening with her ears up, and she listened with trepidation, lest Liu would turn over the table. But the more she listened, the angrier she became. He only heard Mimi whispering that she was dancing in a big wine glass, and Lao Liu applauded: creative!creative! Mimi also said to dance with the boa constrictor, and Lao Liu also applauded: Snakes and beautiful women are often inseparable, and Eve and snakes are the best examples.

● Finally, the birthday banquet was over and the guests dispersed. You old bastard!Mrs. Liu put away her froze smile, paused, and walked straight to Lao Liu: Didn't you say you were going to hit the wall?I see, it didn't hit the wall, but hit a vixen instead. Old Liu didn't say a word, his face sank and turned livid: Don't mention it!I'm almost suffocated. Today is my birthday. There are so many distinguished guests. What can I do?Yell at the third child, tell him to take that woman away?Didn't I make everyone unable to step down and humiliate themselves by doing that?

have something to say Don't embarrass yourself, and don't embarrass everyone else, that's what this chapter is about. In the last chapter, I said that it is best not to touch race, skin color, gender, baldness and other things that are inherently difficult to change when talking. This chapter will talk about: how to face the fait accompli. Confucius said: Don't talk about success, don't criticize success, and don't blame the past.It means: don’t mention things that have already been done; don’t try to persuade things that have already been done; since it’s a thing of the past, don’t blame it anymore!

This sentence looks simple, but it actually has great wisdom.How can a person without great wisdom see things?How can a person without great wisdom endure it? ◎It's too late A friend made an appointment with you to play golf, and you waited for a long time at the court. The court is paid by time, and your time is more precious. You are in a hurry, call your mobile phone, find him, and he is on the way. Do you scold him for being an unpunctual bastard, or do you hold back your breath now that you know he's on the way, and say don't worry in another way!Don't worry!Don't speed, I'm afraid you'll have an accident, if you don't arrive, can I practice by myself?

If you take the former, you are venting your anger, and he may have a heart attack or have a car accident, but what is the use?Can he fly? On the contrary, if you use the latter, he will appreciate you. ◎I have already bought it You have a party, and friends come and give you a bottle of perfume. You already have several bottles of the same thing, and one bottle is useless. The friend gave your husband another bottle of wine, but your husband has high blood pressure and cannot drink. You said it frankly to your face!I have too much of this perfume, no more!My husband doesn't drink too much, you sent it to the wrong person.Or do you happily accept it with endless applause?

Don't you know how to behave like that?Of course you have to take the latter. ◎Words can't be said You are a writer and the editor-in-chief of a newspaper asks you for a story. you can go back in one sentence sorry!I have no manuscript, no time to write. Also known as Thank you for your invitation. I will write this down and start writing as soon as I get inspired. Of course, I dare to present only good works. can also say Thank you, it's really hard for me to come up with such a topic all of a sudden, what day is your deadline?Let me run it for two days, think about it, if it is written, it must be delivered within three days.But if I don't offer it, don't wait for me, let me do it next time!

If you use the first method to block people back at once, what is the benefit?Remember Never say never. You can never say never. People can't be decisive, and words can't be decisive. Even in war, you know that there must be a siege, and leave a way for the opponent to escape, so as to prevent him from fighting a trapped beast. Why don't you tactfully leave him a small space, you can also say give him a step down, and then let yourself out? Having said that, why not leave yourself some space?Maybe you turned around and got an inspiration, or found that the publication was very important and should not be missed, so you submitted it on time. Isn't it the best of both worlds? ◎The thief ship has already boarded give another example You take a taxi, and you see a new car beckoning, but an old-fashioned car pulls out halfway, squeaks, and stops in front of you. You turned your head in embarrassment, seeing that new car drove away again, so you had no choice but to sit in it unwillingly. Are you sulking along the way, looking left and right, complaining and unlucky, or you don’t say anything, and smile to the driver: Not bad!This must be your own car! how do you know?He thought you were going to scold him. It is impossible to maintain such a well-maintained car if it is not my own. Although it is not very new, it feels good. Hearing what you said, isn't he going to open up the conversation and say a lot proudly? So you laugh too, and he is happy too.Isn't it better than you sulking all the way down? ◎People can't walk away Another more common example A few days before you go abroad, go to say goodbye to your elders and friends. When are you leaving?What time is the flight?When are you coming back? The other party must have asked a lot. You answered, he probably has to be polite: I'm going to send it off! If you go there for maybe ten years, or even if you are a lot older, I'm afraid you will never come back. Can you just say it straight? You said, he must go to the airport. He has gone, and he has to make a sad farewell to you. However, you don't want everyone to go, and you don't like the scene of seeing off when it's the end.what should you say You can say that I don't have to leave yet!There are many domestic affairs, and it is likely to be postponed.And I will pass by here in two days, and I may come to see you again. So he sent you to the door, and said like a thousand words: You must come again!Let's get together again! Unless you have a deep friendship, (if you really have a deep friendship, you will let him go to the airport.) Most likely, you will feel relaxed when you leave the door; he will also feel relaxed when he closes the door. You seem to be cheating, but your fake is just to avoid embarrassment for him, and to prevent both of you from continuing to cheat! ◎That's already the case, why bother to say more? let bygones be bygones!let bygones be bygones! Friends and children ran into your house and smashed your porcelain. The things have already been smashed and can’t stick back, so don’t talk too much, just ask if the child is safe?Did you get hurt? A friend walked into your garden and broke your precious flowers.It's already folded, why don't you pick it up and give it to him: just right, such a beautiful flower, I just wanted to pick one for you. Mom cooks a good dish, but it turns out to be salty.She herself called Xian, but you echoed and shouted: Yes!So salty!How did it happen?Still laughed and said: In fact, it is only a little salty, but the taste is still very good. Your good friend actually robbed your girlfriend. When they met on a narrow road, the two of them were a little embarrassed, and they were even afraid that you would punch him in the face. But you took the initiative to say hello: how are you recently?Long time no see, keep in touch! ◎Patience of Wisdom Thinking about the above, is it difficult to do? Difficult to do!You have to have great patience and self-cultivation to be able to do it. But think again, is it really difficult to do?In fact, it's not difficult. You just need to look at another angle and say a few words, you can eliminate the low pressure, relieve the big embarrassment, and show your demeanor, so that the other party will secretly miss it. You who are wise, can you not learn this kind of speaking skills?